Bosco
Oct 19 2006, 08:47 AM
Wouldn't this be a pretty hefty fine for most young Egyptians?
link CAIRO (AFP) - Two young Egyptians caught in the act of kissing in public in Cairo during the Muslim holy month of Ramadan have been fined 100 pounds (17.50 dollars) each, newspapers reported.
A court in Kasr al-Nil district found the pair guilty of offending public morals when they kissed in broad daylight on the banks of the Nile.
The man, aged 25, argued in his defence that his 21-year-old friend was a colleague whom he regarded as a "sister" and with whom he would exchange a kiss every time their paths crossed.
The holy month of Ramadan is a time for abstinence and religious reflection during daylight hours.
rahma
Oct 19 2006, 08:59 AM
That's a significant percentage of a month's pay, if they're even employed.
However, kissing in public in egypt is pretty much a no no all year round. Holding hands, ok. perhaps snuggling a bit while sitting along the nile, they can over look it. But kissing in public? Nu uh.
cbd2cai
Oct 19 2006, 09:00 AM
Yes, 100LE is a lot of money for many Egyptians . . . particularly if they only make 600-1000LE a month. I forget what the average monthly pay ends up in Egypt, but it isn't that much compared to here. But compared to here, everything else is quite cheap.
BTW, did you see the pic that accompanied the article?? The tourists in front of Al-Azhar? Two women in shorts and strapless tops?? What were they thinking? Egypt is a rather conservative country and it would be nice if ppl tried to be a bit more aware of the culture where they are going.
Henia
Oct 19 2006, 09:02 AM
Sorry to laugh but that is actually a funny post... Who in their right mind would even attempt such a thing in public, but esp during Ramadan?
rahma
Oct 19 2006, 09:04 AM
QUOTE(cbarrosmostafa @ Oct 19 2006, 09:00 AM)

BTW, did you see the pic that accompanied the article?? The tourists in front of Al-Azhar? Two women in shorts and strapless tops?? What were they thinking? Egypt is a rather conservative country and it would be nice if ppl tried to be a bit more aware of the culture where they are going.
It brings back memories for me

We were taking off our shoes to go into Al Azhar to pray, and some tourists from an asian country (didn't speak english) were attempting to enter wearing tank tops and short shorts. The shoe guy who guards the door was trying to tell them, in his broken english, that they needed to cover up, but they didn't understand. Some of the more popular tourist masjids (
Masjid of Amr Ibn El-As and the
Mohammad Ali masjid) provide shiney cape like things for people to drape over themselves if they come inadiquetly dressed.
Lesson to be learned - if you're going to tour historic masjids, wear pants and a tshirt, and bring along a scarf in your backpack. I'm pretty sure most tour books tell you that, but I'm amazed at the number of people who ignore that bit of advice.
wife_of_mahmoud
Oct 19 2006, 09:05 AM
QUOTE(cbarrosmostafa @ Oct 19 2006, 09:00 AM)

BTW, did you see the pic that accompanied the article?? The tourists in front of Al-Azhar? Two women in shorts and strapless tops?? What were they thinking? Egypt is a rather conservative country and it would be nice if ppl tried to be a bit more aware of the culture where they are going.
LOL "Clueless in Cairo"

It's just mind-boggling that someone can go to another country and NEVER NOTICE they are completely inappropriately dressed. Well, actually, that happens a lot in the U.S. too, at least as far as I'm concerned.
Look at the Muslim lady's body language. She wants NOTHING to do with those 2

But methinks the guy on the right may be trying to chat them up a bit....
Nice to see you posting again !
-MK
doodlebug
Oct 19 2006, 09:09 AM
looks like the little boy is saying " hide me mommy from those naked women!!"
Bosco
Oct 19 2006, 09:12 AM
QUOTE(wife_of_mahmoud @ Oct 19 2006, 10:05 AM)

LOL "Clueless in Cairo"

It's just mind-boggling that someone can go to another country and NEVER NOTICE they are completely inappropriately dressed. Well, actually, that happens a lot in the U.S. too, at least as far as I'm concerned.
-MK
And then complain when they get untoward looks or comments.
It happens in Morocco too. I remember getting my henna done and looking over and seeing a woman dressed very inappropriately, I was actually taken aback because it was so out of place. The henna ladies wanted to know what was going on (my face must have show something

), so I said "bad" in Arabic and tilted my head in the woman's direction. They were fawning over me after that, loved that I thought it was bad too, lol, touching my clothes and saying "good, good".
The only couples I saw kissing in Morocco were American women with their Moroccan fiances. (not me).
Maggie724
Oct 19 2006, 09:23 AM
[/quote]
And then complain when they get untoward looks or comments.
It happens in Morocco too. I remember getting my henna done and looking over and seeing a woman dressed very inappropriately, I was actually taken aback because it was so out of place. The henna ladies wanted to know what was going on (my face must have show something

), so I said "bad" in Arabic and tilted my head in the woman's direction. They were fawning over me after that, loved that I thought it was bad too, lol, touching my clothes and saying "good, good".
The only couples I saw kissing in Morocco were American women with their Moroccan fiances. (not me).
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I used my 13 hour plane ride to brush up on culture so I wouldn't embarass myself or the man I was meeting!! You girls are correct...didn't take that much effort to investigate and pack accordingly!
Maggie
sophyie
Oct 19 2006, 09:24 AM
I find it a little sad to see pictures like that, because it shows a lack of respect and (also of interest) for the country and culture you're visiting.
If people stay within their resorts and wear next to nothing, I guess that's fine, but everything else...
Just my 2 cents.
rahma
Oct 19 2006, 09:36 AM
Now, I guess in all fairness, perhaps the tourists weren't planning on visiting any masjids. There are two very popular ones there, al Azhar and the Hussein Masjid. But, also right there is Khan Khalili, the touristy market place that every Cairo tourists has to stop at. Still, I sure as heck wouldn't want to go dressed like that in Cairo. Cairenese men are not well known for lowering their gaze, if ya know what I mean.
Veiled Princess
Oct 19 2006, 09:53 AM
charles!
Oct 19 2006, 09:55 AM
here's your ramadan kiss
Henia
Oct 19 2006, 10:00 AM
QUOTE(charlesandnessa @ Oct 19 2006, 10:55 AM)

here's your ramadan kiss
Too funny Charles!
Mrs. Forgetful
Oct 19 2006, 10:07 AM
The two partially naked women was the first thing I noticed when I opened the link. I wonder why they would think it's appropriate to dress like that there and not realize how much they stick out there?!
rclouse
Oct 19 2006, 10:10 AM
When will people learn that you can't legislate morality?
rahma
Oct 19 2006, 10:11 AM
QUOTE(rclouse @ Oct 19 2006, 10:10 AM)

When will people learn that you can't legislate morality?
Every society sets standards for what is and is not appropriate in public. Some set the bar a bit higher than others, but there's always that bar.
*edited for spelling*
Veiled Princess
Oct 19 2006, 10:23 AM
QUOTE(rclouse @ Oct 19 2006, 11:10 AM)

When will people learn that you can't legislate morality?
There are moral standards legislated in every country including this one... it is illegal to walk out in public nude... you will be arrested/fined for indecency in public if you violate this law. It may not be your morals but it is someone's.
Do you advocate we ban that law and allow nudist teachers to teach our children in the buff? Wouldn't want to enforce our morals on anyone right?
Henia
Oct 19 2006, 10:25 AM
QUOTE(Veiled Princess @ Oct 19 2006, 11:23 AM)

QUOTE(rclouse @ Oct 19 2006, 11:10 AM)

When will people learn that you can't legislate morality?
There are moral standards legislated in every country including this one... it is illegal to walk out in public nude... you will be arrested/fined for indecency in public if you violate this law. It may not be your morals but it is someone's.
Do you advocate we ban that law and allow nudist teachers to teach our children in the buff? Wouldn't want to enforce our morals on anyone right?
Snaps nude teachers? Ye my kids would be *learning* alright
sophyie
Oct 19 2006, 10:37 AM
I think it also is a matter of "intuition": I find it strange that people very often just don't notice that they are dressed (and/or behave!- thinking: taking picture without making sure it's ok) inappropriately- and that happens so often, no matter where in the world you are.
rclouse
Oct 19 2006, 10:40 AM
QUOTE(Veiled Princess @ Oct 19 2006, 10:23 AM)

QUOTE(rclouse @ Oct 19 2006, 11:10 AM)

When will people learn that you can't legislate morality?
There are moral standards legislated in every country including this one... it is illegal to walk out in public nude... you will be arrested/fined for indecency in public if you violate this law. It may not be your morals but it is someone's.
Do you advocate we ban that law and allow nudist teachers to teach our children in the buff? Wouldn't want to enforce our morals on anyone right?

I'm pretty sure there's a big difference between kissing in public and public nudity.
QUOTE
Every society sets standards for what is and is not appropriate in public. Some set the bar a bit higher than others, but there's always that bar.
Would you prefer officers from the Ministry for the Prevention of Vice and Promotion of Virtue to decide for you what is moral and what is not? They've just set the bar a bit higher, right?
Veiled Princess
Oct 19 2006, 10:44 AM
QUOTE(sophyie @ Oct 19 2006, 11:37 AM)

I think it also is a matter of "intuition": I find it strange that people very often just don't notice that they are dressed (and/or behave!- thinking: taking picture without making sure it's ok) inappropriately- and that happens so often, no matter where in the world you are.
Like in my office

QUOTE(rclouse @ Oct 19 2006, 11:40 AM)

I'm pretty sure there's a big difference between kissing in public and public nudity.
That is your opinion.
Together4ever
Oct 19 2006, 11:42 AM
QUOTE(rclouse @ Oct 19 2006, 11:40 AM)

I'm pretty sure there's a big difference between kissing in public and public nudity.
In your culture, yes. In another, no. This demonstrates much the same mentality as the women scantilly clad in the photo. To them they are "comfortable" and within what they are accustomed to. In an Islamic country it is an outrage and the people are extremely uncomfortable around people dressed like this. Just is what it is and depends on which soil you are standing.
Public displays of affection in Egypt are not considered acceptable. When I teared up in the airport before leaving, Mohammed put his arm around me to comfort me and was immediately swarmed by security with threats of being hauled off if he didn't move a "respectable distance" away from me.
Bosco
Oct 19 2006, 11:49 AM
QUOTE(rclouse @ Oct 19 2006, 11:40 AM)

QUOTE(Veiled Princess @ Oct 19 2006, 10:23 AM)

QUOTE(rclouse @ Oct 19 2006, 11:10 AM)

When will people learn that you can't legislate morality?
There are moral standards legislated in every country including this one... it is illegal to walk out in public nude... you will be arrested/fined for indecency in public if you violate this law. It may not be your morals but it is someone's.
Do you advocate we ban that law and allow nudist teachers to teach our children in the buff? Wouldn't want to enforce our morals on anyone right?

I'm pretty sure there's a big difference between kissing in public and public nudity.
I would agree. I think a fair comparison would be kissing in public in Egypt and a man going up a woman's shirt in public here.
rahma
Oct 19 2006, 12:02 PM
QUOTE(rclouse @ Oct 19 2006, 10:40 AM)

QUOTE
Every society sets standards for what is and is not appropriate in public. Some set the bar a bit higher than others, but there's always that bar.
Would you prefer officers from the Ministry for the Prevention of Vice and Promotion of Virtue to decide for you what is moral and what is not? They've just set the bar a bit higher, right?
If I chose to go to a country that has that, then I'll follow their standards.
Veiled Princess
Oct 19 2006, 12:21 PM
QUOTE(Bosco @ Oct 19 2006, 12:49 PM)

QUOTE(rclouse @ Oct 19 2006, 11:40 AM)

I'm pretty sure there's a big difference between kissing in public and public nudity.
I would agree. I think a fair comparison would be kissing in public in Egypt and a man going up a woman's shirt in public here.
rclouse
Oct 19 2006, 12:36 PM
QUOTE(just_waiting @ Oct 19 2006, 11:42 AM)

Public displays of affection in Egypt are not considered acceptable. When I teared up in the airport before leaving, Mohammed put his arm around me to comfort me and was immediately swarmed by security with threats of being hauled off if he didn't move a "respectable distance" away from me.
Wow. Morocco isn't nearly as bad in that respect.
Together4ever
Oct 19 2006, 02:04 PM
QUOTE(rclouse @ Oct 19 2006, 01:36 PM)

QUOTE(just_waiting @ Oct 19 2006, 11:42 AM)

Public displays of affection in Egypt are not considered acceptable. When I teared up in the airport before leaving, Mohammed put his arm around me to comfort me and was immediately swarmed by security with threats of being hauled off if he didn't move a "respectable distance" away from me.
Wow. Morocco isn't nearly as bad in that respect.
Yes, my understanding is that Morocco is somewhat more liberal.
jordanianprincess
Oct 19 2006, 02:19 PM
Jordan is very conservative and we had no problems holding hands, he put his arm around me while sitting, we used to feed each other while eating, help me down the steps, open doors, etc. Kissing is a HUGE no no.
sarah and hicham
Oct 19 2006, 02:21 PM
QUOTE(jordanianprincess @ Oct 19 2006, 12:19 PM)

Jordan is very conservative and we had no problems holding hands, he put his arm around me while sitting, we used to feed each other while eating, help me down the steps, open doors, etc. Kissing is a HUGE no no.
haha help you down the steps cause you love those high heels on cobblestone haha.
jordanianprincess
Oct 19 2006, 02:22 PM
QUOTE(sarah and hicham @ Oct 19 2006, 12:21 PM)

QUOTE(jordanianprincess @ Oct 19 2006, 12:19 PM)

Jordan is very conservative and we had no problems holding hands, he put his arm around me while sitting, we used to feed each other while eating, help me down the steps, open doors, etc. Kissing is a HUGE no no.
haha help you down the steps cause you love those high heels on cobblestone haha.
Precisely my dear.

LOL no matter how much he told me to change I wouldnt. I'm 5'3" and he is 6'3"...I look like a midget next to him without heels!
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