I am a US citizen. I live in England with my husband (for now). We married in March of 2005. I am not considered a RESIDENT of the U.K. yet because I have not lived here long enough (I am up for some sort of status change in MAY, but that's probably immaterial considering that I need to return to the US before then).
From reading the VISA information at the US Embassy in London's site, I have to be a resident to file a petition while in the UK. Since I am not a UK resident technically, I suppose I must file in the USA. Please tell me if I'm wrong.
I am considering going back to the United States in the next week or so, to California, to begin the VISA process. I have not deciphered which VISA is better to obtain, the K-3 or I-130 first.
I want the following:
To move to the US personally, to file a petition, and to bring my husband to the US and have him eligible for work, etc.
My concerns are: I would like for my husband to be able to visit me for Christmas, or at other times, whether he has a visa or not (i.e. I do not want to be forced to stay apart). But I don't want that considered an illegal entry. Any wisdom on this question would be appreciated.
MY STATUS:
I have to go to the US and get a job, pad my bank account, and create a HOME for us to live in.
My husband has to tie up loose ends in the UK, so a bit of a wait is not catastophic.
I am 23 years old. I was 21 when I came to the UK, and 22 when I married. My tax return for 2003-2004 is not impressive, but there are circumstances behind that and I can earn more now. I have yet to file a tax return for the 2 years I have spent in the UK.
The bulk of my qualifying support money has yet to be earned. I don't have a family I can stay with or ask to help sponsor us for the sake of the application (my mother is ill in hospital and her estate is in probate, and I used to look after her). Is it likely that a decision would be based on my tax returns when I have been out of the country for the last two years and in a state of limbo?
I am returning to the US specifically to make a better life for us and have a chance at good things, a life that seems harder to get in England. It's important.
CHOICES:
Should I go over, bring my husband, and THEN file when he is PHYSICALLY IN the USA, or is that forbidden? What are the ramifications?
Should I go to the USA, file an application, and wait for his consulate to contact him regarding completing his application and receiving a medical examination while he is in his home country, and just WAIT for the UK gov't to contact the US gov't?
The goal is: Go to USA, file SOMETHING, re-unite with spouse when he is legally able to work, have social security number, etc. What is my fastest route to this end? Which VISA (I-130 or K-3)?
Any advise would be greatly appreciated. I thank you if you've read all of this. I am just a bit desperate... trying to fix one part of my life without destroying my marriage. I want to make the best decisions possible. Thanks very much.
