Okay KitKat I'm an idiot lol. I went to this site the other day and that is when I say I needed the Military records I also noticed that I needed to fill out the I-864 and that the applicaiton was going to cost a whole lot more then I thought. When I saw your response I went and looked again and started to copy and past where it said about the military records. Then I realized I was looking at the Instruction Package for Immigrant Visa Applicants and that if I just scrolled down a little I would find the right instructions
Needless to say I like the instructions so much better for the Fiancee Packet.

One more question then. If I'm understanding what I'm reading correctly when NVC sends our stuff to CDJ we can already have our info ready and basically go for our Medical Examinatin and interview as soon as we verify that CDJ has received our papers from NVC.
And thank you KitKat you always seem to have the answers for my many times stupid questions