QUOTE(me! @ Nov 19 2007, 08:31 PM)

Hi Everyone! I just started applying for a k-1 for my boyfriend who is from chelm, poland. I'm glad to see there is a thread particularly for poles. It will be nice to be able to talk to you all.
Hi and welcome! Please join our discussions (which seem to be pretty dead recently

) as often as you can!
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My biggest worry about the visa process is that my boyfriend doesn't speak english. Were/are any of you in that situation?
Like it was said before, as long as you speak Polish and you can communicate it won't be an issue. All you have to do is prove your bona fide relationship.
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How were things when you got to the states? Did you feel isolated and have a hard time finding work, or did you learn quickly and transition smoothly?
I'd been to the States before I moved, so it wasn't a big cultural shock. In fact when I first moved I didn't really feel like life here was all that much different from my life in Poland. Even in Poland I probably spoke more English than Polish overall due to my education and profession. Only after and few months/years I started to notice more and more differences. After moving to the US, I never really felt isolated, but that's maybe because I speak fluent English and I'm not particularly shy. I never had problems getting a job either. The only thing that I had hard time with was not having a car and being stuck at home all day before I got my work permit and not having real friends. That's one thing that really bothers me about Americans sometimes. In Poland, if you have good friends, they will call, hang out etc. In America, everybody's "busy".. Too busy to call, too busy to meet even for an hour. It took me a while to make friends. And I guess you have to get used to the American idea of a "friend". But other than that everything was pretty smooth. I know it wasn't smooth for everyone I know though, so I guess I'm lucky.
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Did you find Polish-speaking friends quickly here in the states? How soon after getting married can you go back to poland to visit?
Honestly, I don't have Polish friends here and I don't hang out with Polish people. Mostly because there's so little Polish peeps in SLC. I did meet a girl recently though, and we're gonna hang out sometime.
I moved to US beginning of June 2005 and went back for the first time in February 2007. My Mom was here for a visit in Dec 05 though.
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I just worry after all the work of getting the visa that Michal will get homesick! How do you all deal with homesickness?
Oh I'm sure he will. It's normal. I wasn't too homesick (but I've always been quite independent and I've lived away from my family since I was 18) but the first few months I did get upset a lot more than now. Mostly because I didn't have any friends to fill the void. I think you have to be very understanding and supporting of your guy the first year or so.
Anyways, welcome again and congrats on going to Poland for Xmas!