Talk up!

Eh, my husband and I don't go out to clubs. For one, we don't have the money. We would rather eat and pay the bills. For two, it's just not us. Not saying there's anything wrong with it...but it's just not us.

Well of course clubs are off limits with us.

But if we have some friends who are going out to a bar/restaurant, we will go together

My fiance loves to dance. She loves the hip hop I like punk/rockabilly.. so she goes clubbing .. and I normally sit in the corner drink beer and watch her dance and watch the coats. I do not dance.. it is a public hazard to anyone nearby.

I voted with friends and my spouse. Hubby and I love music and dancing (well I try). I really enjoy "ladies out night" with my friends but I really love going out with Damien. We have so much fun.

I voted "we don't go out". We do go out, just not to night clubs. We don't like to dance.

don't go out

I've never been much of a clubbing sort of person, so I voted 'don't go out'.
Too loud, too many people, too close together, and too much booze.
I'd rather curl up on the couch, watch a movie, play some video games, and snuggle my beloved.

I have several girlfriends that I go out with on occasion... Girls' nights out. Not always to clubs, sometimes dinner and a movie, or to the theater, but we also go on long weekends to Detroit, NYC, Chicago or Vegas.

David plays the saxophone professionally, so he will be part of the 'club' scene. I'm sure I'll go to listen to him play on occasion, but I plan to continue my girls' nights out even when he's here. We've discussed it and it's important to me.... time alone for him is equally important.

Hubby and I went clubbing once. Got home at 3am. We were so tired and grumpy and fought the whole next week that we haven't even attempted to do it again. Although we did have fun--it was the after effects that told us we are getting old!

Me and hubby both love music and dancing, but the dancehall scene in California is lame (and I don't really care for hip hop) so we only go out when we're back in Jamaica. I don't have any girlfriends in my area so usually my girls will meet me in JA and we all get together (me, hubby, our friends) and go out together.

Before my husband and I met each other, we were both at clubs all the time. Then we met each other at a club and continued to go together. Now we've pretty much lost interest and prefer watching a funny movie!

Neither one of us actually goes out,but if I would like to go out I would definitley prefer to go out with my man.Though a girls night out with a good friend (someone who doesn't behave silly) would be ok for me too.Jim wouldn't mind.If he wanted to go out with his best friends I wouldn't mind it since I trust him and know he wont make a mistake.
Nat

Same here. The closest we get to dancing is going to an arcade and playing Dance Dance Revolution together.

Jonesie,

I didn't marry my wife so I'd have someone to leave at home while I go out with friends.

Yodrak

We don't go to clubs. Not into the clubbing thing at all.

We go out and hang out with our friends together though.

We don't go to clubs. We spend our nights online talking to each other.

We haven't really had time to go out to the club lately. But I used to go Salsa Dancing at a club on Wednesday and Friday nights without my husband because he is not big on dancing. But if and when we go out to the clubs it's usually together.

Precisely

I like going out dancing now and then. My husband will agree to go occasionally, but he's not as big on it as I am. I have gone out with some girlfriends since he's been here, but that was for a bachelorette party. We mostly go out together, but we will meet up with friends occasionally, and if my best girlfriend is in town, I'll meet up for dinner and drinks with her to catch up on all the gossip.

When ever we have opportunity to drop our daughter off with my parents My spouse & I go out together to social events such as beach parties occasioanlly a club night. We used to watch College Footie every Saturday at our favorite Sports bar which recently burned down (Rest in peace Sharkeys )

I go out with my mates once a week & my spouse has a ladies night out.

It is healthy for the relationship to have the freedom, it shows trust.

Amen! That was my spot as well...

What a tragedy, I live right down Hermosa Ave/ ( Hermosa & 2nd) My wife & I would go there every Tuesday ( taco Tuesday) We miss that place a lot, the rest of the spots on Pier avenue don't have the character or good food that Sharkeys did, Hennessy food is bland, Not too wild about Sangria either!

Fat face Fenners is Ok. Hopefully rebuilt Sharkeys will have most of the same old character it had before.
minus the USC brats

when we were here in the states we went out every weekend together. George loves to dance. i cant dance to well but he loves to dance with me. since we had been in lebanon we had went out a few times. neither of us drink our selves stupid but we like to have a drink or two.

We do'nt go to clubs. We'll go out to bars or something with friends or to pub quiz.

I frequently have girls nights outs...book club, wine night...

we've also recently started game night with three other couples. We'll get together and play trivial pursuit or scrabble.