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sheraz
QUOTE(rahma @ Aug 24 2006, 11:47 AM) *

QUOTE(sheraz @ Aug 24 2006, 11:39 AM) *


Many people will simply answer this by saying that they want to have the right to wear anything they want. True. But its the stuborn folks who get into arguments and make the rest of us look bad. All middle easterner should realize that even though they may have been born here, they are not natives of this land. Trying going back to Saudi, Yemen etc, the difference between natives and non natives could be seen. Pakis are not even discriminated against even in the middleeast. I dont understand why the middle easterners have such a problem when it comes to them in US.



Should we aspire to be like Saudia, Pakistan et al, or should we aspire to uphold the ideals of the constitution and the ideals that founded this country?

Since this is a country of immigrants, very few of us are natives here. As different cultures come, we blend and add more to the mosaic. I'm proud to add my european heratige and muslim faith to this country's flavor. Of interest to you, perhaps, is many of those who contributed to this thread are in fact, not middle easterners, but rather american women who have embraced islam. I know my family has been here for close to 2 centuries. We've fought in the civil war, world war 1, world war II, etc. I'm about as native to these lands as you can get, short of being a native american.

The key here are rights, as you mentioned. I'm not going to give up my rights because someone is uncomfortable with me. With that attitude, blacks would still be sitting at the back of the bus. We're not second class citizens no0pb.gif Last time I checked, there were, ideally, not suppose to be any second class citizens here.


I dont think people of european heritage are going to be profiled. The fact still remains that all the terrorists are from the middle east. So inorder to make the travel safe, we need to comply with safety concerns. I would like to add that Pakistanis are descriminated against in Saudi. True we have to act like a mosaic but as muslims we need to understand the reality of times and stop creating a fuss about things.

Most buses in the Houston metro are filled with African Americans. The only difference is that the whites have moved on and have left the buses. Progress cannot be accomplished by simply demanding rights but by rather having a positve attitude and hard work. Jews are the best example. Asians didnt demand rights, they worked their way up. Its the turn of Muslims to show they are peaceful, law abiding and adaptable.

QUOTE(Bosco @ Aug 24 2006, 11:56 AM) *

QUOTE(sheraz @ Aug 24 2006, 12:39 PM) *

I dont understand all the complaints on profiling muslims. I am originally from Pakistan. I know that someone wearing a tshirt with hebrew text would have been asked to take it off. Infact there are no tshirts with urdu language text in Pakistan. I am frequent traveller with an average of 4 round trips a month and have been to the smallest and largest airports in US and Canada. By the grace of God have never been yet singled out. I mind my own buisness. And so should most travellers. Now here is my question
-Why would you want to wear a tshirt with arabic text on it on the plane. You know the situation around the world.
-Why would you want to start reading the Quran on the plane. You know the issues. If you want to pray, you can pray silently and recite in your heart. Its that simple.
My mom and wife wears Paki dress when she travels from Pak to US (on American Airlines) and Trousers for travel with US. Its just that simple. She has never had any problems.
In my view, mind your own buisness when travellings. If you need to wear hijab, simply take the numerous muslim airlines( turkish, egypt air, PIA, Saudi, Emirates, Qatar etc). or travel by road if in the US. If you are wearing hijab, do you really have to go to the waterparks in Florida.
Jews and Christians (in roman times) and throughout history adjusted their ways to suit the prevailing times. Its the turn of Muslims now.
Many people will simply answer this by saying that they want to have the right to wear anything they want. True. But its the stuborn folks who get into arguments and make the rest of us look bad. All middle easterner should realize that even though they may have been born here, they are not natives of this land. Trying going back to Saudi, Yemen etc, the difference between natives and non natives could be seen. Pakis are not even discriminated against even in the middleeast. I dont understand why the middle easterners have such a problem when it comes to them in US.



I was not taught that to wear trousers was more American than wearing salwar kameez, or that to wear a cowboy hat was more American than to wear hijab. I don't think a gandora is less American than a mini skirt. Why should eurocentric practices outweigh those of other cultures? Those of us with European heritage are not somehow more entitled, more American (although many think differently). A white face isn't more American than a brown face, New York accented English is not more American than Egyptian accented English and Chinatown isn't less American than Greenwich Village.


European ancesstory is the majority in the country. Majority rules. That has to be accepted.
Jenn!
QUOTE(sheraz @ Aug 24 2006, 01:26 PM) *

European ancesstory is the majority in the country. Majority rules. That has to be accepted.


I think that's a really scary statement. How far are you willing to take that?
iceyspots
QUOTE(sheraz @ Aug 24 2006, 01:26 PM) *

QUOTE(rahma @ Aug 24 2006, 11:47 AM) *

QUOTE(sheraz @ Aug 24 2006, 11:39 AM) *


Many people will simply answer this by saying that they want to have the right to wear anything they want. True. But its the stuborn folks who get into arguments and make the rest of us look bad. All middle easterner should realize that even though they may have been born here, they are not natives of this land. Trying going back to Saudi, Yemen etc, the difference between natives and non natives could be seen. Pakis are not even discriminated against even in the middleeast. I dont understand why the middle easterners have such a problem when it comes to them in US.



Should we aspire to be like Saudia, Pakistan et al, or should we aspire to uphold the ideals of the constitution and the ideals that founded this country?

Since this is a country of immigrants, very few of us are natives here. As different cultures come, we blend and add more to the mosaic. I'm proud to add my european heratige and muslim faith to this country's flavor. Of interest to you, perhaps, is many of those who contributed to this thread are in fact, not middle easterners, but rather american women who have embraced islam. I know my family has been here for close to 2 centuries. We've fought in the civil war, world war 1, world war II, etc. I'm about as native to these lands as you can get, short of being a native american.

The key here are rights, as you mentioned. I'm not going to give up my rights because someone is uncomfortable with me. With that attitude, blacks would still be sitting at the back of the bus. We're not second class citizens no0pb.gif Last time I checked, there were, ideally, not suppose to be any second class citizens here.


I dont think people of european heritage are going to be profiled. The fact still remains that all the terrorists are from the middle east. So inorder to make the travel safe, we need to comply with safety concerns. I would like to add that Pakistanis are descriminated against in Saudi. True we have to act like a mosaic but as muslims we need to understand the reality of times and stop creating a fuss about things.

Most buses in the Houston metro are filled with African Americans. The only difference is that the whites have moved on and have left the buses. Progress cannot be accomplished by simply demanding rights but by rather having a positve attitude and hard work. Jews are the best example. Asians didnt demand rights, they worked their way up. Its the turn of Muslims to show they are peaceful, law abiding and adaptable.

QUOTE(Bosco @ Aug 24 2006, 11:56 AM) *

QUOTE(sheraz @ Aug 24 2006, 12:39 PM) *

I dont understand all the complaints on profiling muslims. I am originally from Pakistan. I know that someone wearing a tshirt with hebrew text would have been asked to take it off. Infact there are no tshirts with urdu language text in Pakistan. I am frequent traveller with an average of 4 round trips a month and have been to the smallest and largest airports in US and Canada. By the grace of God have never been yet singled out. I mind my own buisness. And so should most travellers. Now here is my question
-Why would you want to wear a tshirt with arabic text on it on the plane. You know the situation around the world.
-Why would you want to start reading the Quran on the plane. You know the issues. If you want to pray, you can pray silently and recite in your heart. Its that simple.
My mom and wife wears Paki dress when she travels from Pak to US (on American Airlines) and Trousers for travel with US. Its just that simple. She has never had any problems.
In my view, mind your own buisness when travellings. If you need to wear hijab, simply take the numerous muslim airlines( turkish, egypt air, PIA, Saudi, Emirates, Qatar etc). or travel by road if in the US. If you are wearing hijab, do you really have to go to the waterparks in Florida.
Jews and Christians (in roman times) and throughout history adjusted their ways to suit the prevailing times. Its the turn of Muslims now.
Many people will simply answer this by saying that they want to have the right to wear anything they want. True. But its the stuborn folks who get into arguments and make the rest of us look bad. All middle easterner should realize that even though they may have been born here, they are not natives of this land. Trying going back to Saudi, Yemen etc, the difference between natives and non natives could be seen. Pakis are not even discriminated against even in the middleeast. I dont understand why the middle easterners have such a problem when it comes to them in US.



I was not taught that to wear trousers was more American than wearing salwar kameez, or that to wear a cowboy hat was more American than to wear hijab. I don't think a gandora is less American than a mini skirt. Why should eurocentric practices outweigh those of other cultures? Those of us with European heritage are not somehow more entitled, more American (although many think differently). A white face isn't more American than a brown face, New York accented English is not more American than Egyptian accented English and Chinatown isn't less American than Greenwich Village.


European ancesstory is the majority in the country. Majority rules. That has to be accepted.


Yeah, but there was even a time where europeans discriminated towards other europeans. "Irish need not apply"... etc etc... times have changed... and as the US keeps expanding and adding new immigrants and people of different backgrounds, it's likely to change like that too. It will change, just very slowly.
rahma
QUOTE(sheraz @ Aug 24 2006, 12:26 PM) *


I dont think people of european heritage are going to be profiled. The fact still remains that all the terrorists are from the middle east. So inorder to make the travel safe, we need to comply with safety concerns. I would like to add that Pakistanis are descriminated against in Saudi. True we have to act like a mosaic but as muslims we need to understand the reality of times and stop creating a fuss about things.


I've been profiled yes.gif But again, what I'm complaining about here is not profiling. If I pass through all the security checks, once, twice, three times, then I'm safe to be on the plane and act in my normal manner. I'f I've passed the security checks, then no mob should be able to pitch me off because they find my manner of dress bizare or that I may speak in a different language.

QUOTE
Most buses in the Houston metro are filled with African Americans. The only difference is that the whites have moved on and have left the buses. Progress cannot be accomplished by simply demanding rights but by rather having a positve attitude and hard work. Jews are the best example. Asians didnt demand rights, they worked their way up. Its the turn of Muslims to show they are peaceful, law abiding and adaptable.


One can both demand their rights and have a positive hard working attitude.

QUOTE

European ancesstory is the majority in the country. Majority rules. That has to be accepted.


funny, one of the things I learned in all my american government classes (poli sci major and all) was that here, although we have rule of the majority, the minority's rights are to be protected. The will of the majority should not be imposed on that of the minority.
moody
Yep, I've been profiled too yes.gif and I'm as white as white can be. It didn't bother me, though. I thought it was kinda funny. Oh yeah I'm sooo scary with my bad azz higab.


QUOTE(rahma @ Aug 24 2006, 01:35 PM) *

QUOTE(sheraz @ Aug 24 2006, 12:26 PM) *


I dont think people of european heritage are going to be profiled. The fact still remains that all the terrorists are from the middle east. So inorder to make the travel safe, we need to comply with safety concerns. I would like to add that Pakistanis are descriminated against in Saudi. True we have to act like a mosaic but as muslims we need to understand the reality of times and stop creating a fuss about things.


I've been profiled yes.gif But again, what I'm complaining about here is not profiling. If I pass through all the security checks, once, twice, three times, then I'm safe to be on the plane and act in my normal manner. I'f I've passed the security checks, then no mob should be able to pitch me off because they find my manner of dress bizare or that I may speak in a different language.

QUOTE
Most buses in the Houston metro are filled with African Americans. The only difference is that the whites have moved on and have left the buses. Progress cannot be accomplished by simply demanding rights but by rather having a positve attitude and hard work. Jews are the best example. Asians didnt demand rights, they worked their way up. Its the turn of Muslims to show they are peaceful, law abiding and adaptable.


One can both demand their rights and have a positive hard working attitude.

QUOTE

European ancesstory is the majority in the country. Majority rules. That has to be accepted.


funny, one of the things I learned in all my american government classes (poli sci major and all) was that here, although we have rule of the majority, the minority's rights are to be protected. The will of the majority should not be imposed on that of the minority.

charles!
QUOTE(jenn3539 @ Aug 23 2006, 07:37 PM) *

Sounds like someone doesn't understand what racism means. rolleyes.gif

if you're implying her words are racist, then you need to study the word too. wink.gif

QUOTE(sarah and hicham @ Aug 23 2006, 07:41 PM) *

QUOTE(jenn3539 @ Aug 23 2006, 05:37 PM) *

Sounds like someone doesn't understand what racism means. rolleyes.gif



yeah I think she needs some private time in the bathroom with Webster.

and you should too

QUOTE(sarah and hicham @ Aug 23 2006, 07:48 PM) *

QUOTE(Natashabrenda @ Aug 23 2006, 05:45 PM) *

OK by THAT definition I am a racist.My definition of a racist is a different one so thats why I can't and wont call my self a racist.
Just Waiting,DO NOT call me your sis.
And oh yes I WILL be coming to the USA,no matter if you guys like it or not.
I want to live in peace and quiet with my family and I want my family to be safe no matter where we live.
You can think and say what you want,if 9/11 wouldn't have happened Muslims would not be looked at the way they are being looked at now!
Nat


hahaha so you can make your own definitions of anything you want that way in your head you will not be associated with negativity such as being the racist that you are.

try the word bigot instead of racist and you will sound smarter wink.gif
Jenn!
Racism refers to the belief that social discrimination by race is justifiable.

She is a racist. Do you really think semantics were the issue? Really? She would have agreed had he said she was a bigot? Gimme a F'in break!



I want to add that it doesn't matter what label is used when one understands the sentiment behind the label.
charles!
QUOTE(jenn3539 @ Aug 24 2006, 02:03 PM) *

Racism refers to the belief that social discrimination by race is justifiable.

She is a racist. Do you really think semantics were the issue? Really? She would have agreed had he said she was a bigot? Gimme a F'in break!

unless islam is a race, the term bigot fits. no f'ing breaks given, i'm fresh out tongue.gif
Jenn!
QUOTE(charlesandnessa @ Aug 24 2006, 03:01 PM) *

try the word bigot instead of racist and you will sound smarter wink.gif


What a jerk you are.
Together4ever
Ok... correct me if I'm wrong... Do we not have freedom of speech in this country? If so, where does it state all speech (i.e. self expression) must ONLY be done in English and the applicable font and never on an airplane? I think it is utterly ridiculous to tell someone they cannot wear a t shirt in hebrew, arabic, telegu or any other language on a airplane because it's suspicious behavior. Where is the damn common sense????

I've seen HORRID t-shirts on airplanes! Womanizing, advocating marajuana, violence, you name it... and there they sat all comfy and cozy on the airplane arriving at their destination totally unbothered.

I could spike my hair, shave designs into my head and die it green and get on a plane just fine. But wear hijab and that's considered suspicious behavior??? Like the previous is not an obvious statement at noncomformity???

It shouldn't take a genius to see there is something wrong with this. It's very simple.... SIMPLE common sense. Unfortunately hatred tends to kill common sense.
charles!
QUOTE(jenn3539 @ Aug 24 2006, 02:11 PM) *

QUOTE(charlesandnessa @ Aug 24 2006, 03:01 PM) *

try the word bigot instead of racist and you will sound smarter wink.gif


What a jerk you are.

yawn. not my fault you don't know english whistling.gif
Jenn!
QUOTE(charlesandnessa @ Aug 24 2006, 03:10 PM) *

QUOTE(jenn3539 @ Aug 24 2006, 02:03 PM) *

Racism refers to the belief that social discrimination by race is justifiable.

She is a racist. Do you really think semantics were the issue? Really? She would have agreed had he said she was a bigot? Gimme a F'in break!

unless islam is a race, the term bigot fits. no f'ing breaks given, i'm fresh out tongue.gif


It was obvious she was talking about arab muslims.

The sole purpose of your post was to try to humiliate Sarah and me. What's your problem?



QUOTE(charlesandnessa @ Aug 24 2006, 03:16 PM) *

QUOTE(jenn3539 @ Aug 24 2006, 02:11 PM) *

QUOTE(charlesandnessa @ Aug 24 2006, 03:01 PM) *

try the word bigot instead of racist and you will sound smarter wink.gif


What a jerk you are.

yawn. not my fault you don't know english whistling.gif


If you think you're smarter than me, Charles, you are wrong.
charles!
QUOTE(jenn3539 @ Aug 24 2006, 02:18 PM) *

QUOTE(charlesandnessa @ Aug 24 2006, 03:10 PM) *

QUOTE(jenn3539 @ Aug 24 2006, 02:03 PM) *

Racism refers to the belief that social discrimination by race is justifiable.

She is a racist. Do you really think semantics were the issue? Really? She would have agreed had he said she was a bigot? Gimme a F'in break!

unless islam is a race, the term bigot fits. no f'ing breaks given, i'm fresh out tongue.gif


It was obvious she was talking about arab muslims.

The sole purpose of your post was to try to humiliate Sarah and me. What's your problem?



QUOTE(charlesandnessa @ Aug 24 2006, 03:16 PM) *

QUOTE(jenn3539 @ Aug 24 2006, 02:11 PM) *

QUOTE(charlesandnessa @ Aug 24 2006, 03:01 PM) *

try the word bigot instead of racist and you will sound smarter wink.gif


What a jerk you are.

yawn. not my fault you don't know english whistling.gif


If you think you're smarter than me, Charles, you are wrong.

ok, go toss that word "racist" around some more then tongue.gif
Bosco
QUOTE(jenn3539 @ Aug 24 2006, 03:18 PM) *

QUOTE(charlesandnessa @ Aug 24 2006, 03:10 PM) *

QUOTE(jenn3539 @ Aug 24 2006, 02:03 PM) *

Racism refers to the belief that social discrimination by race is justifiable.

She is a racist. Do you really think semantics were the issue? Really? She would have agreed had he said she was a bigot? Gimme a F'in break!

unless islam is a race, the term bigot fits. no f'ing breaks given, i'm fresh out tongue.gif


It was obvious she was talking about arab muslims.

The sole purpose of your post was to try to humiliate Sarah and me. What's your problem?



Yes, and she specifically stated Arabs more than once. Both bigot and racist would fit.
PlatyPius
QUOTE(just_waiting @ Aug 24 2006, 03:16 PM) *

Ok... correct me if I'm wrong... Do we not have freedom of speech in this country? If so, where does it state all speech (i.e. self expression) must ONLY be done in English and the applicable font and never on an airplane? I think it is utterly ridiculous to tell someone they cannot wear a t shirt in hebrew, arabic, telegu or any other language on a airplane because it's suspicious behavior. Where is the damn common sense???


People fear what they don't understand. Most Americans don't understand arabic, hebrew, etc. If they can't understand it, they get suspicious.


QUOTE
I could spike my hair, shave designs into my head and die it green and get on a plane just fine. But wear hijab and that's considered suspicious behavior???


The people who have tried to terrorize the US didn't have green, spiked hair with designs shaved in it. They were - or claimed to be - Muslim. Hijab = Muslim.

QUOTE
It shouldn't take a genius to see there is something wrong with this. It's very simple.... SIMPLE common sense. Unfortunately hatred tends to kill common sense.


You claim "hatred" a lot. I see suspicion and caution rather than hatred. I haven't seen anyone here say that all Muslims should be put against the wall and shot. I haven't heard anyone say that they hate Muslims and wish they'd all go die in the desert. I've heard people, who are afraid, make some rather overboard suggestions on ways for them to remain safe.

When one claims hatred for every little thing, people stop paying attention after a while..... That whole "I'm so persecuted!!!!11" thing.
Jenn!
QUOTE(Cian @ Aug 24 2006, 04:33 PM) *

When one claims hatred for every little thing, people stop paying attention after a while..... That whole "I'm so persecuted!!!!11" thing.


Yes, people stop paying attention when they are not the ones being hated. I really don't have sympathy for people who are tired of hearing that there exists hatred towards Muslims. And what seems a "little thing" to you, can be a very big deal to the person who's actually experiencing it.
PlatyPius
I don't deny that there IS hatred toward Muslims. I was just saying that I haven't really seen any here at VJ. Just some excessive paranoia.

Jenn!
QUOTE(Cian @ Aug 24 2006, 04:45 PM) *

I don't deny that there IS hatred toward Muslims. I was just saying that I haven't really seen any here at VJ. Just some excessive paranoia.


I agree with you to a point. While "I am afraid when a guy with a thing on his head gets on my place" is just excessive paranoia, I think that suggesting that all Muslims travel on separate airlines crosses a line.
PlatyPius
Ok, I'll agree with you on that one. That WAS too much.
Bosco
QUOTE(Cian @ Aug 24 2006, 04:45 PM) *

I don't deny that there IS hatred toward Muslims. I was just saying that I haven't really seen any here at VJ. Just some excessive paranoia.


Do you think that in at least some of the cases it isn't only fear motivating the paranoia? When people say they don't want any Muslims on planes or to live in a part of the country with any Muslims, can this be written off to just fear? Given the context of this persons posts and plenty of other racial identifiers that fill their posts, do you think it is at least *possible* there is more going on?

I have seen at least one person on VJ come out and directly say that they "hate Islam".

We have other VJ members who post articles every single day that portray Muslims in a negative light. I am not arguing the merit of those articles, but I am wondering if you think that is done in "fear". What would people think if I dug up articles that portrayed African Americans in a negative light on a daily basis. Could I write that off to fear?
iceyspots
we need ric flair woooooo
moody
Woooooooo!

I agree.


Wooooooooo!
iceyspots
haha we gotta hang out mrs z
PlatyPius
QUOTE

Do you think that in at least some of the cases it isn't only fear motivating the paranoia? When people say they don't want any Muslims on planes or to live in a part of the country with any Muslims, can this be written off to just fear? Given the context of this persons posts and plenty of other racial identifiers that fill their posts, do you think it is at least *possible* there is more going on?

I have seen at least one person on VJ come out and directly say that they "hate Islam".

We have other VJ members who post articles every single day that portray Muslims in a negative light. I am not arguing the merit of those articles, but I am wondering if you think that is done in "fear". What would people think if I dug up articles that portrayed African Americans in a negative light on a daily basis. Could I write that off to fear?



Points taken. I tend to forget about R---- most of the time. I'd say he has a serious hatred going on.

I still don't know about the other one though. I don't feel comfortable making that judgement. It *Could* be just extreme paranoia/fear. Could be more, too.
iceyspots
I somehow feel we are not all on the same drawing board.
moody
You say your close to Dearborn? We should arrange to meet there sometime smile.gif

QUOTE(iceyspots @ Aug 24 2006, 05:21 PM) *

haha we gotta hang out mrs z

iceyspots
QUOTE(Mrs. Z @ Aug 24 2006, 05:25 PM) *

You say your close to Dearborn? We should arrange to meet there sometime smile.gif

QUOTE(iceyspots @ Aug 24 2006, 05:21 PM) *

haha we gotta hang out mrs z



yup!... I'm bordering dearborn heights... at least for right now.. am moving back to belleville september 1st.

dangit.. I just got reminded of shatilas, al ameer, masri bakery and cedarland...darn darn darn
moody
Mmmmmm Cedarland..yumm! My favorite bakery is Yaseen's. Good stuff smile.gif

We should meet up there sometime before you move.
iceyspots
QUOTE(Mrs. Z @ Aug 24 2006, 05:36 PM) *

Mmmmmm Cedarland..yumm! My favorite bakery is Yaseen's. Good stuff smile.gif

We should meet up there sometime before you move.


ok!

I like Yasmeens baked goods like their individual cakes and what not, but I don't really care for their baklawa... I like baklawa from Masri or Shatila betta!!
moody
Masri makes kick azz kunafa. God I love that stuff!
iceyspots
QUOTE(Mrs. Z @ Aug 24 2006, 05:46 PM) *

Masri makes kick azz kunafa. God I love that stuff!


oh yeah the egyptian guy up there gave me a free plate of it to try it out.. I actually liked it pretty well!
Henia
QUOTE(Cian @ Aug 24 2006, 08:40 AM) *
QUOTE(jabree @ Aug 24 2006, 08:03 AM) *

Oh well, better to die on your feet, than to live on your knees.........


That's exactly why I don't believe in any of the major religions; I refuse to live on my knees.






I judge you not buuuut time will tell ...in the time of all our deaths and Judgement who is right...but ME personally I would rather ....

IPB Image





QUOTE(just_waiting @ Aug 24 2006, 10:05 AM) *
QUOTE(Cian @ Aug 24 2006, 08:40 AM) *

QUOTE(jabree @ Aug 24 2006, 08:03 AM) *

Oh well, better to die on your feet, than to live on your knees.........


That's exactly why I don't believe in any of the major religions; I refuse to live on my knees.



All depends on how you define "living on your knees" I suppose. yes.gif






Good one Jean



QUOTE(samir_shannon @ Aug 24 2006, 10:18 AM) *
QUOTE(lostinlove228 @ Aug 23 2006, 01:34 PM) *

I am flying out next month with the Hijab on. Will say if they give me a trouble...

well dont wear one then.........problem solved.




I am not even going to really reply to your comment the way I want...cos I should be calm as a cucumber and not be rude, as I donnot know you and cannot judge you, I am not the God...but all I can say is..I realise you are not Muslim and you probably donnot understand what it is for...but if someone decides to wear that, it is with much thought (hopefully) and is not easy to just take off...nor should be...



QUOTE(rahma @ Aug 24 2006, 10:23 AM) *
QUOTE(samir_shannon @ Aug 24 2006, 09:18 AM) *

QUOTE(lostinlove228 @ Aug 23 2006, 01:34 PM) *

I am flying out next month with the Hijab on. Will say if they give me a trouble...

well dont wear one then.........problem solved.






First off Rahma, cute Hijebi emoticon, second...I feel ya sister...almost everyday is a struggle...but we keep on going you know...thinking about the next life... so bravo sister...I am with you... rose.gif


It isn't simply a matter of not wearing one. In fact, taking it off does not solve the problem, but rather creates a bigger one. Taking it off gives in to the fear mongering and hatred. Wearing hijab in the face of hostility is a trial and a test that can increase one's faith. It's also a sign to show that one is not ashamed of being muslim IPB Image

Wearing it proudly and showing the world that you can be a muslim and *gasp* not be a terrorist and a nice person does far more to solve the problem then taking it off. That's my mission every day




[quote name='Mrs. Z' date='Aug 24 2006, 10:56 AM' post='397307'] This is a public forum so yes, I have a right to say anything I want. The fact that you put info about yourself and your fiance also makes it up for grabs...sorry. Anyhooo....many of your statements point to intolerance. Remember this one?....my fiance will use TP, I will not put a watering can in my bathroom..something to that effect. Everyone knows Muslims use water to clean after the toilet. Will you also tell him he's not allowed to eat Algerian food because he's in the states now? Boy do I feel sorry for him. Now women shouldn't wear higab because other ppl don't like. We live in a big, big world full of all different kinds of ppl. Deal with it.

I'm me...that's who the hell I think I am!


[quote][/quote]



Yalla Yalla Heyye Mrs. Z biggrin.gif I agree with you 100%

Henia
QUOTE(Mrs. Z @ Aug 24 2006, 12:08 PM) *
Awwww you certainly are a sweetie.

Muslim girls are mouthy too smile.gif




laughing.gif Sassy

iceyspots
I prefer fiesty!!
Bosco
cheeky tongue.gif
Together4ever
Cheesy.... blush.gif
Henia
LOL I have been profiled too..and I am whiter then white...
QUOTE(Mrs. Z @ Aug 24 2006, 01:47 PM) *
Yep, I've been profiled too yes.gif and I'm as white as white can be. It didn't bother me, though. I thought it was kinda funny. Oh yeah I'm sooo scary with my bad azz higab.


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QUOTE(sheraz @ Aug 24 2006, 12:26 PM) *












I dont think people of european heritage are going to be profiled. The fact still remains that all the terrorists are from the middle east. So inorder to make the travel safe, we need to comply with safety concerns. I would like to add that Pakistanis are descriminated against in Saudi. True we have to act like a mosaic but as muslims we need to understand the reality of times and stop creating a fuss about things.


I've been profiled yes.gif But again, what I'm complaining about here is not profiling. If I pass through all the security checks, once, twice, three times, then I'm safe to be on the plane and act in my normal manner. I'f I've passed the security checks, then no mob should be able to pitch me off because they find my manner of dress bizare or that I may speak in a different language.

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Most buses in the Houston metro are filled with African Americans. The only difference is that the whites have moved on and have left the buses. Progress cannot be accomplished by simply demanding rights but by rather having a positve attitude and hard work. Jews are the best example. Asians didnt demand rights, they worked their way up. Its the turn of Muslims to show they are peaceful, law abiding and adaptable.


One can both demand their rights and have a positive hard working attitude.

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European ancesstory is the majority in the country. Majority rules. That has to be accepted.


funny, one of the things I learned in all my american government classes (poli sci major and all) was that here, although we have rule of the majority, the minority's rights are to be protected. The will of the majority should not be imposed on that of the minority.



iceyspots
White and pasty? lol
Together4ever
... as white as a dead fish's belly, baby!
Henia
QUOTE(Cian @ Aug 24 2006, 04:45 PM) *
I don't deny that there IS hatred toward Muslims. I was just saying that I haven't really seen any here at VJ. Just some excessive paranoia.





You havnt seen it...I just remember replying to a lady who said if she saw a Muslim on her plane she and her husband would be afraid...hmmmmm



QUOTE(Mrs. Z @ Aug 24 2006, 05:36 PM) *
Mmmmmm Cedarland..yumm! My favorite bakery is Yaseen's. Good stuff smile.gif

We should meet up there sometime before you move.






Heeeeeeeeeeeeyyy am I NOT invited too? crying.gif

iceyspots
QUOTE(Henia @ Aug 24 2006, 09:22 PM) *

QUOTE(Cian @ Aug 24 2006, 04:45 PM) *
I don't deny that there IS hatred toward Muslims. I was just saying that I haven't really seen any here at VJ. Just some excessive paranoia.





You havnt seen it...I just remember replying to a lady who said if she saw a Muslim on her plane she and her husband would be afraid...hmmmmm



QUOTE(Mrs. Z @ Aug 24 2006, 05:36 PM) *
Mmmmmm Cedarland..yumm! My favorite bakery is Yaseen's. Good stuff smile.gif

We should meet up there sometime before you move.






Heeeeeeeeeeeeyyy am I NOT invited too? crying.gif


yes.. you're invited.. I got the ride... what's the date ya'll ?


we need a MEAN Girls reunion.
rahma
I want some good konafa crying.gif The ME desserts here just don't compare to back home landia. Mmmmmmmmm
Together4ever
This white girl would settle for a very large snickers bar...................
rahma
Or cheesecake
Henia
QUOTE(iceyspots @ Aug 24 2006, 09:11 PM) *
I prefer fiesty!!




How about ... bold, brassy, cheeky, dynamic, energetic or fresh laughing.gif

iceyspots
QUOTE(Henia @ Aug 24 2006, 09:30 PM) *

QUOTE(iceyspots @ Aug 24 2006, 09:11 PM) *
I prefer fiesty!!




How about ... bold, brassy, cheeky, dynamic, energetic or fresh laughing.gif


ok have we decided where we are going to go when I come back ?
Henia
QUOTE(iceyspots @ Aug 24 2006, 09:22 PM) *
QUOTE(Henia @ Aug 24 2006, 09:22 PM) *

QUOTE(Cian @ Aug 24 2006, 04:45 PM) *
I don't deny that there IS hatred toward Muslims. I was just saying that I haven't really seen any here at VJ. Just some excessive paranoia.









You havnt seen it...I just remember replying to a lady who said if she saw a Muslim on her plane she and her husband would be afraid...hmmmmm



QUOTE(Mrs. Z @ Aug 24 2006, 05:36 PM) *
Mmmmmm Cedarland..yumm! My favorite bakery is Yaseen's. Good stuff smile.gif

We should meet up there sometime before you move.






Heeeeeeeeeeeeyyy am I NOT invited too? crying.gif


yes.. you're invited.. I got the ride... what's the date ya'll ?


we need a MEAN Girls reunion.


Hmmm What is a good spot? Warren, Mich Ave ,Ford? or more West ....



Well in any case I am here in the sticks...come get me PLZZZZZZZZ ... I want me a capp now...I am eating some walnut ma'amouls LOL mmmmmmmmm

iceyspots
QUOTE(Henia @ Aug 24 2006, 09:37 PM) *

QUOTE(iceyspots @ Aug 24 2006, 09:22 PM) *
QUOTE(Henia @ Aug 24 2006, 09:22 PM) *

QUOTE(Cian @ Aug 24 2006, 04:45 PM) *
I don't deny that there IS hatred toward Muslims. I was just saying that I haven't really seen any here at VJ. Just some excessive paranoia.









You havnt seen it...I just remember replying to a lady who said if she saw a Muslim on her plane she and her husband would be afraid...hmmmmm



QUOTE(Mrs. Z @ Aug 24 2006, 05:36 PM) *
Mmmmmm Cedarland..yumm! My favorite bakery is Yaseen's. Good stuff smile.gif

We should meet up there sometime before you move.






Heeeeeeeeeeeeyyy am I NOT invited too? crying.gif


yes.. you're invited.. I got the ride... what's the date ya'll ?


we need a MEAN Girls reunion.


Hmmm What is a good spot? Warren, Mich Ave ,Ford? or more West ....



Well in any case I am here in the sticks...come get me PLZZZZZZZZ ... I want me a capp now...I am eating some walnut ma'amouls LOL mmmmmmmmm



OK OK ill get ya.. But where?? hmm.. Al Ameer? Cedarland ??
Together4ever
Wherever you go... just don't act.................. SUSPICIOUS! whistling.gif
Henia
QUOTE(just_waiting @ Aug 24 2006, 09:53 PM) *
Wherever you go... just don't act.................. SUSPICIOUS! whistling.gif






laughing.gif You know we will Jean,,, laughing.gif

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