QUOTE(TracyOz @ Jan 11 2008, 08:42 AM)

Patricia.... I HEAR you -
it's a bit like running a LONG marathon... you start out and know it is going to take time - but then in the distance you can see the finishing line, and suddenly even KNOWING it is there, and just around the corner - you start to run out of steam, energy, breath and become dehydrated (ummmm not hard in the few 41+ degree days we have just had here - hey)... I am feeling VERY much like you, especially after having Steve here for the 2 weeks over Xmas - it was heartbreaking to say "see yah" at the airport last week, even though I know I am seeing him in another 4 weeks - why is it that the 2 weeks he was here FLEW by in a blink, but the week he has been gone has totally DRAGGED to a point it feels like a whole MONTH has gone by LOL...
Glad to hear I'm not alone! I also have this irrational fear that they're going to deny my visa - so up until I get it right in front of me, I'm not going to believe it (as much as I want to buy my ONE WAY ticket already!). This whole process can be so emotionally draining - I remember the agony waiting for even just the NOA1, let alone the NOA2! But that seem so long ago now and here we are, near the end of the line and it still can't get here FAST enough

(Perhaps I really am just
that impatient?
But by far, this is the easiest separation I've had with Zach. Of course saying goodbye to him was still very hard (yes, sobbing like a baby was the order of the day), but because I had the interview to worry about, finishing up at work (gosh, that's what's driving me insane at the moment! There's so much info to pass on to the new Manager in SO little time!!!) and packing up (and selling) our life away here in Adelaide, I really haven't had a chance to just reflect and miss him miserably! Not to mention, we're planning our quickie Missouri wedding! So very overwhelming /end whinge
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Oh and re: your airfares...
Just as an FYI while $1900 one way is GREAT from ADL.... for the dates that you are looking at, you might find that for a similar price - maybe even less for a return ticket (which can be valid for around a year - and gives you some of the fare for coming back to visit your family done already)...
check out www.bestflights.com.au (I use them all the time for my flights over there - and FOLKS I also used them (Australian site) when we booked Steve's trip over here from Cleveland - they actually were $1000 less than ANY of the USA travel sites for the journey USA-AUS-USA.. I KNOW that at the moment Bestflights.com.au have a AirNZ return ticket ex. ADL for $1400 + 400 taxes (ish) for travel April to June (doesn't suit you I know)....
But in my experience of USA travel, both for work and for personal - in the past 4 years I have done 8 or 9 trips over there, including a bunch of (USA domestic), I tend to book the (AUS-USA-AUS) portion ex Sydney with Bestflights, (or directly with United) then I book the ADL-SYD component (directly with qantas), and any of the USA domestic legs I find that I get a better deal if I use either Expedia, or Travelocity - than I would have if I book the entire journey through an agent or one site... (if that makes sense)...
I'll have to have a look at this more, but I am being very picky about my flight over. I definitely want to fly Qantas because I'm a Silver FF and I get an extra bag to go to the US. So even if I bring 4 x 30kgs bags, I'll only be paying for one excess baggage (for this trip there's soooooo much to bring over and we're definitely saving heaps by paying airline excess baggage as oppose to going via a freight company). Plus, I really want a direct flight to the US - I know that Air NZ probably would only require me a 2-hour stop over in NZ, but I still just want to bypass that altogether, just one time to step on a plane and that's done. I'm being picky about it, but will still look into other flights, especially if it's going to save us heaps of $$$$.
Also, glad to hear Bestflights.com.au has worked so well for you. I get their emails all the time and have taken one of their offers to a travel agent who then beat it a further $50. So yay for BF!
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AND don't forget your travel insurance - as I do not believe you can be added to his health insurance until you are married...a GREAT place to look at T/Insurance (I purchase a one year policy each year) and under this policy each trip can be for a period of 90 days.. which I found to be WAY way cheaper than anything else out there...
is through www.1cover.com.au
a one year coverage for a single person is around $325 AUS - it covers Australian Domestic travel as well, and even though because of the visas we are all going in under, the moment we travel over there for our marriages, after 90 days of being there you won't be able to use it for any claims - but believe me I don't think you will not find a 90 day to the USA travel insurance policy for less than $325.
Thanks for the insurance advice. Definitely going to get insurance. If I pay with my credit card travel insurance is included in it too - but I just need to weigh out whether the fee I pay on my credit card is worth the cost of the travel insurance I automatically get. I have lots of Maths to do!
Have a lovely weekend everybody! I'm off to Melbourne and Canberra this week for work - kinda wishing I wasn't required to go since I have so much packing up to do here at home, not to mention starting to say goodbye to friends and family!