Hi everyone!!! Firt of all, I have changed my nickname and country, because i don't want to dissapoint at all people who one day i helped and cheered up. Since I moved to my husband's country have happened many things to me.

I got pregnant and had a miscarriage, and then my health didn't go well and i felt that he didn't support me, i realesed that there was something wrong with him , his mom say that it wa because of two car accidents that he had had, finally i made an appoitment for him and the psiciatric told us that he had adhd, his son has it, but he thought that it was transmitted by his biological mom, my husband has behavior problems, this is a very long story so I asked him to divorce, but in these days my interview is going to be and he asked me to divorce last night. I don't know what to do, stay here, go to my country and i am not working right now, because i am going to have my road test in two weeks.

I hope somebody can hear me and help me!! I know that this is not nice to hear these kind of things, when most of people wish they could be with their couples, but i was part of it too and know that i made good friends here too.

Thank youuu!!!

I'm sorry to hear that you are going through such difficult times. If neither you nor your husband wish to continue in the marriage, perhaps it would be best for you to return to your country. It seems like it would be fraudulent for you present yourselves as a happily married couple at your AOS interview when you are talking divorce. Also after having gone through a miscarriage and marriage trouble, I'm sure you could really use the support of family and close friends. Take care, I hope you are feeling better now.