Just curious about the responses I'll get for this. Remember, when voting don't consider your family, friends or loved ones in your choice, we all know we are more tolerant of those we love than those outside of that circle.

I am very strict on these things. (aside from loved ones of course). The worse one can do is lie to me. Then I am pretty much done with that person.

Isabel

I voted "3 They might just have needed more time to feel comfortable and safe being honest" 3 or more lies, it's not the numbers that count but the circumstances and all kind of things, tho i'm not a psycho so when i find out someone lied to me, i always offer the personn the chance to explain and talk about it calmy and then if this personn keep diving into his/her lies again and again, i may start to be a pain in the ###, hurtfull and all the jazz tho i always give people chances to be imperfect...
I can easily trust someone's word tho once i made up my mind nothing can change it and when i decided someone is useless and is wasting my time i easily turn my back, parents, family, friends, lovers and so, regular people. I have a long list of people i threw out of my life, starting with my own parents, knowing that people know i'm serious about this ######, i'm often called heartless, it must be true in some ways.

All lies in our relationship relate to candy. No loss of faith or weight gain yet on either side.

zero tolerance!!

Depends on what they lie about.

yeah

Once bitten, twice burned. An honest person of moral character would not lie in the first place, regardless of what they lied about.

Jen

So far it's looking fairly evenly spread out

I agree, zero tolerance for liars. How can someone feel uncomfortable being honest? I couldn't care less the reason...if they're lying to me before I even really know them, then there is no reason to pursue any kind of relationship. Besides, even if a loved one is a liar they definitely aren't on my Christmas card list, either.

Once is enough, Second time is Too much!

Integrity is the basis of trust. Lying sucks....

I agree..

lie is a lie is a lie... should never happen

if they would lie once... they will do it again

Depends of the lie. I counted as serious lie.
So serious lies I say everybody deserves a second chance, with a few exceptions: cheating, murder, etc
Some lies are acceptable, like for example when I'm dressed to go somewhere and I ask ''Do I look fat in this pants?'' and he says ''no babe you look like a model'', that's completely acceptable

I would give a second chance.

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all of you who say 4 or less are lying to yourselves! If you think that people don't lie to you more than that before you lose trust, you are badly mistaken. How many times have your parents lied to you? Have you lost trust in them yet? How about your spouse? Wether it be white or black lies, a lie is still a lie!

Yup. If he lies and says 'No, honey, those pants don't make you look fat', then it's okay. No real harm done. If he lies and says he isn't cheating on me, and is, then that's the first and final straw.

If it's the little stuff, I don't really mind all that much, but lies about major things... I might forgive once, but after that I have a real hard time trusting someone that can't even tell their significant other the truth. *shrugs*

If it's the little stuff, I don't really mind all that much, but lies about major things... I might forgive once, but after that I have a real hard time trusting someone that can't even tell their significant other the truth. *shrugs*

My ex-wife lied to my face...

This explains why perhaps she's my EX-wife...

Do you think she'll lie to the USCIS about whether the marriage was legitimate or not??

hmmmmmmmmmm...

-- Dan