Let me first say sorry this is going ot be a long post..Everything went well with my husbands interview Friday till the interview.. when we went into the room I was immeditly told to go out and wait she wanted to interview my husband alone. I was like So about 20 minutes later she paged me to come into the room and then told my husband to leave she grilled me about everything coming and going. How did we meet, where did we meet, why did I choose him, did I meet his mother, what kind of music did he like, what did we have in common, After answering all of this she wants proof So I give her about 50 pics. movie stubs from the past 2 1/2 years. insurance policies, bank accounts. she then leaves me in the room for about 15 minutes then comes back in and asks what are we going to do when my husband comes to the US I told her I was getting ready to start a business she ask what kind I tell her and she ask why was I going to start it I tell her a woman owned business has alot of benifits to it..She asks how do you know this I tell her I read and research alot on the internet. She then ask did you read and research MARRIAGE FRAUD as well?

I was like what are you talking now? She said I don't believe this is a real Marriage. I said what basis do you have for this accusation? She said you are 10 years older the him. I said NO I am not 10 years older then him I am 8 1/2 years older then him she yelled EXCUSE ME..and you also have been married and divorced before..now I am thinking OK and since whaen is this a crime She said I know this is a FRAUDULENT MARRIAGE because your husbands culture (Indian) does not allow them to marry older divorced woman.. Again I am thinking two things at this point does she mean if I was younger and divorced or maybe if I was younger and married without divorce then he would be allowed to marry me but I didn't go there. But she is going to let him have his VISA because she doesn't have enough proof of FRAUDULENT but she just knows the MARRIAGE is. She just can't prove it....By this point she is She then tells me to bring my husband back in the room..She then tells him what she thinks..My poor hubby doesn't have a clue what she is talking about..So he ask her if you think this then tell me what I can do so you won't think this? I am thinking ok Andy like she is going to tell you I felt like this B*tch..I guess she saw our case file had her own thoughts thinks MARRIAGE FRAUD here I will prove it and get a BIG FAT PROMOTION Well guess what? Come Monday morning this B*tch is back on her KNEES at work Her HALLUCINATIONS didn't get her anywhere..

CALLING ALL OLDER DIVORCED LADIES OUT THERE STAY WAY FROM INDIAN MEN IF YOU DONT YOU ARE A FRAUD Bottom line HUBBY IS COMING HOME



Michelle

WOW, Sorry for that terrible ordeal but eh, YOU got it !!!!!!!! That's all that counts ! Don't worry about the b**tch.

Do you think this is the same b**ch that answers the phone and works window 14 or or there a bunch of frustrated b**ches that work there?

Sorry to here about your troubles but so glad you got thru. That's what counts in the end.

SORRY TO HEAR THAT YOU GUYS HAD TO GO THRU THE FRUSTRATION BUT THE BIGGEST THING IS THAT YOU KEPT YOUR KOOL AND SURVIVED THE BATTLE. WELCOME HOME AND GOOD LUCK TO THE BOTH OF YOU.

WOW , what a journey , but you made it. Congratulations

Sorry that you had to undergo those accuasations. The important thing, is that in the end your husband is coming home!!!

Oh yeah... and I loved all of your animated smileys. They definitely added to your story.

Congrats!! yay for happy endings.

Like everyone else said I agree that it was an awful experience, but chin up YOU DID IT, Congrats on that.

lol, It would make sense eh? tommysgirl !!!!!!!!!!!

*hugs* you both came through such an ordeal and survived! thank the gods he got his visa!

whew! that was hard.. anyway, congrats for making it.

Oh, Michelle! I'm sorry you had to go through all that. I'm glad it turned out well in the end. Congratulations!

well if you would have married pakistani that interview would seemed like a cake walk.
me and my husband dont have a big age diffrence just a few years. we have been grilled 2 hours.
me in dallas < USICS >. he got grilled in Pakistan. plus!! the embassy showed up at my husbands parents house and interviewed his family extensively on 2 random days. they also went door to do asking the neighbours about us. I still feel embarrassed over our ordeal. we still wait 1 1/2 years later and still no dayum visa. we are still waiting on AP.

WOW what an ordeal, but thank goodness it was a happy ending, that lady seems like she is just frustrated with life in general...lol, don't let her ruin your party... CONGRATSSSS

Michelle
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well if you would have married pakistani that interview would seemed like a cake walk.
me and my husband dont have a big age diffrence just a few years. we have been grilled 2 hours.
me in dallas < USICS >. he got grilled in Pakistan. plus!! the embassy showed up at my husbands parents house and interviewed his family extensively on 2 random days. they also went door to do asking the neighbours about us. I still feel embarrassed over our ordeal. we still wait 1 1/2 years later and still no dayum visa. we are still waiting on AP. [/quote]



OMG do you think they are going to do this to us?????? I wouldn't be surprised..







Michelle

He got the visa right?

Good gracious!!!!
unreal, I think some of these pple better stop playing GOD with other pple's lives. How awful for you, my heart breaks for you that it all happened but in the end it turned out the way it was supposed to yea

That is true, what I was meaning, was I have heard that even after you get your visa that immigration will make surprise visits to your home and stuff to see if you are really on the up and up..Has anyone ever heard of this?





Michelle

It seems the visa office suspect the couples who are not local Canadian, which really made me scared because we are not local persons,either. We are from China.

Sorry you had to go through all that, but at least you don't have to deal with this woman anymore!

Glad you made it through with the visa

Ah man, and you had to work for it right until the last possible minute! Rediculous, but congrats - well deserved!

Sounds like they wanted to rattle your cage a little bit and see how you reacted. I guess your reaction convinced them since you got the visa...