QUOTE(newhampshire @ Jul 20 2006, 03:47 AM)

What I see is people having legitimate concerns and complaints, and either being told to be patient and keep waiting, or being given justifications/excuses for the poor and slow service provided by the USCIS. Both of those are legitimate responses, but not terribly supportive.
At the end of this month, I'll be at the five month mark already waiting just for my NOA1 - that does not include the 6-8 months on the other end of the NOA2, leaving me at over a year for an actual visa.
My case wasn't delayed because of any error on my part or any name match or anything - it simply was not worked on while at the Vermont Service Center. They admitted that to my congressman.
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So I guess what I want to hear when I'm upset over this wait (separated from my husband, often bedridden with multiple sclerosis, in pain, tired beyond belief) and frustrated is - "Yeah, it's crummy, isn't it? The USCIS is indeed slow and inefficient." NOT - "Oh, you gotta give the USCIS credit ..." or "Oh, your application is delayed because you or your name..."
That's my kind of validation.
NH:
There's two kinds of answers to your posts. Here's one:
If you want/need "Yeah, it's crummy, isn't it?", ask for it directly, as you did eventually in this thread. Lots of us will be willing to wring hands with you and say 'being apart sucks'. my thoughts for you to get that kind of validation is to hang in the regional or other 'chatty' threads/forums.
The other kind of answer is the kind I more often give, but not for the reasons you think. It goes like this:
1-your file did sit in VSC 'doing nothing' which is exactly what happens. Nothing unique happening to you there.
2-you don't know that you are being sent to the back of the queue at CSC, you have no idea how long it will take to adjudicate your petition. That's true for everyone. Petitions are rerouted to other Service Centers frequently, altho VSC-->CSC is new, it doesn't mean that your processing time will double. Actually, we'll never know, because there is no way to know how long it would've taken if it stayed at VSC. I suspect with the changes they've made that it never would've been processed. That would be worse, yes?
3-USCIS considers it a victory if an I-130 is processed within one year. That is just a fact that should help give you perspective on what they consider 'an emergency' and what you consider to be so. I'm not defending or excusing, just informing.
4-Sitting there doing 'nothing' is exactly all you *can* do. Your elected reps are not going to get any action on your specific case (unless you can make a humanitarian case based on your health, which I would not overlook were I you). Your case is inside of normal processing. Your electeds are there for when a case falls OUT of 'normal' (no matter how crummy 'normal' is). You have not yet been screwed by USCIS---trust me, you will KNOW when you have been.
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My whole point was that it seemed like people were simply "excusing" the USCIS rather than demanding the service they deserve from their government. And then, once they had their visas, and the sense of urgency was gone, any inclination to continue to be politically active seemed to fall by the wayside.
Well, I'm here, and my alien just became a USC. I've done things and am doing things to further immigrants' rights in my own community and to influence my elected reps to 'do the right thing' when they are debating new bills. I don't excuse the Agency, but I am realistic about what I want and when I want it. I don't think that advocating for your own case is the same as putting political pressure or activism out there. Write to your reps, tell em how you feel, but you should not expect them to push you to the front of the line, which is really what you want (and I don't fault you a bit for that!). Remember that all the Cognress is doing is pushing around little pieces of policy that were written in 1952--ridiculous! It needs to be scrapped and started over, and no one wants to do that. *That* sucks.
Go back and read my first type of reply. There is not thing one wrong with asking for some moral support, expressing that you miss your spouse, that you feel crappy physically this day or that---there are a lot of wonderful people here who have overcome adversity that I can't imagine---they will have hope and inspiration for you and help you to take your mind off of the one thing that you *can not* control, the immigration process. Posting about how screwed up the agency or the process or the gov't is is NOT giving support or encouragement to your fellow VJers---maybe that influences the responses you get. People in a 'hopeless' situation don't want to hear that there's an incompetent driving the bus!

I'm sure you know how important your mental health and attitude are in battling MS--I really encourage you to focus on being as well as you can be in the circumstances you have.
And when I feel crappy, I always feel better when I am doing something for someone else.

Feel better, NH. It just sucks sometimes, I know.