I don't know how to answer this poll... do you mean NOW, when we haven't seen each other in months? Because then there is no choice for how infrequently we do it

Orrrr do you mean when we were living together? Because then maybe you need more choices in the opposite direction

hmmmm maybe that was too personal... ah well

poll question stated was:

Are you sexually satisfied by your partner when you're together?

so think back to when you were together ... then answer!

The only problem with our sex life is finding time and privacy!

I was wanting to ask this exact question, but I just didn't. Wasn't sure it would remain up on the board.

Although Katya and I have a great sex life NOW it did take quite a bit of time to develop. First off there was a HUGE sexual cultural difference between the two of us. Talking about sex is considered taboo in Ukraine. And I wasn't comfortable having sex with her the first time until we had discussed a few things (birth control, health, expectations, etc.) Yeah...that was something of a struggle. Then there are certain expectation and sexual roles that men and women play in her culture. For example although she may 'WANT' or even 'NEED' sex it was not the woman's role to initiate a sexual encounter. Also the idea of leading in the sex play was something she had not encountered before. In her experience it is the man that should always be in control sexually. I don't think I have EVER encountered this with women from the US. In my past experience it was more my SO (at the time) coming home from work and immediately tearing my clothes off because she way 'dying'. Although it took a while she now rather enjoys the switch up in roles I have introduced her to. Although, she does admit to feeling a bit guilty afterward the fact for 'enjoying' being sexually in charge.

Anyways...one of many things we have works through in the sexual aspect of our relationship. It is REALLY hard (no pun intended) when you both have different ideas and experiences that are based within a cultural perspective. I really didn’t think sex would be one of the cultural hurdles that we would have to cross. But it turned out to be on of the most fun to work through.

haha.. I was thinking "what?? I dont' have sex now; he's 5K miles away!!!"

Then I read some of the replied and answered for when we're together.

Why dont' you have an option for "several times a day"?

I have no complaints in the bedroom department except the fact his bedroom is on the other side of the ocean.

I cant complain!!

Do all forms of sexual encounters count, or just intercourse?

I'm going to say...why don't you give us an answer for both?

Joel

How can I state this and still keep it PG rated? Luz and I have the most satisfing amazing sex I have ever experienced! When I met her she was not very experienced. But after we got to know each other I can only describe it as EXPLOSIVE!!! (why do you think I have made 6 trips in 2 years? Just kidding) I have truly found my soul mate. The only complaint I have with the poll questions is you only gave me the option of 2x/day! There is nothing I could possibly complain about. We are true matches in every sense of the word.

Oh my only complaint like others is not being together all the time now. But this too wil come.

We both feel that it is the most amazing sex either of us have had. We can talk about anything and are going to be able to keep other satisfied because we both are so enjoying each other. For me I have never had such an amazing time with anyone, he knows exactly what to do to please me and he says the same thing. I am sure it will be even better once we are together everyday so for now he has the ability to have time off work and he travels to see me like GaryC it will be 4 times in the last 7 months when he gets here in a little over a week, and neither of us can wait.

Yes. Highly.

It would take a hell of a man to get *me* to settle down and enjoy monogamy; hubby's the one!

Because the poll will only let me choose one option. Duh.

What, you didn't think I was going to comment and tell y'all exactly how often we have sex, did you?

Um...yeah! I was hoping.

Joel

well to be honest, g didnt have 'alot' of expirence and ive never encountered that with a man before. he doesnt perform oral, never has never will he says.......he doesnt have the same sex drive i do, he is after all 13yrs older then me........we fight about it a lot actually and i dont like to. sometimes it will be every other day, sometimes 2 days in a row even other times we go 2wks without and he doesnt seem to mind.......usually its once a week on avg tho. that sucks lol i have a high drive and its frustrating sometimes. oh well what to do, different cultures and stuff

at this time nooooooooo its been 5 mos since i had any

I don't understand how these polls are getting bumped without seeing any new posts? This one's at the top of the list, yet there's not one new post showing that's not from 06.

does it get bumped when one votes, not replies? *shrug*

I just noticed it was from 2006... oh well, I answered it today anyways!!!

Sex is good, not too frequent, not like when we were first together, but we're both 52, and have been together for 5 years now.

It's inevitable that it wears off somewhat in time.

New feature: votes bump posts.

I'm wondering about that myself.