According to a site someone pointed out to me recently, the average man only lasts about 2 minutes in bed.

I'm not going to say how long my fiance lasts, just siffice it to say that if other women knew how he was in bed, they'd hate me.

each time is different .... thank god...

and I don't clock watch so I didn't vote....

Hahahaha!

"Baby, what are you doing with the stopwatch?"

"oh nothing, hun... just keep doing what you're doing..."

ROTFL!!!

I think it's funny how the poll results are either "1 minute man" or 20+ minutes

I won't say what my vote was... but I will say that I had to give my man props.
I think I've said too much

I cant believe some people voted One minute, now that would completely dissapoint me

Since Sian doesn't visit here, I had to vote for her. lol

Honestly, my personal opinion is; if you aren't going to spend at least an hour, why bother?

As for her previous boyfriends.... she told me that British men were voted the worst lovers in the world, and that she had to agree with that. Obviously, I don't know personally.

why you got mins on there ..
where the hour buttons?

at least an hour!

I'm not talking about all the foreplay and everything... just the erm.. hardcore stuff.

I mean seriously, if I were including foreplay, I'd have had to put options up there for HOURS...

(and I guess I really am lucky, becuase my Englishman is honestly the best lover I've ever had)

I'm not talking about foreplay either. I AM including "during-play", though. That's about as graphic as I'll get with it here.

... maybe I should have put "ladies only" in the title.

Might have helped keep the "willy-waving" to a minimum.

luvaLimey,

Yes, I wonder how many people read and then took into account that qualifier that you had in your poll question. Based on the questions I see asked in the on-topic forums I have an idea....

On the other hand, much foreplay is pretty darn "hardcore stuff".

Yodrak

true!

I agree with you there!!!

oh you wicked girl!!!

This post is kind of like asking VJ men how long their penises are. No one will reply less than 6.

I consider it the best part..... that can last all day

as for nationality........it doesn't mean anything....either a man knows some stuff or he doesn't....

sooo.. are you going to be posting that survey?

Amen!

Well can't speak about Englishmen, but I can tell you that my American man is the best I have ever had.

Perhaps it would be good to know if anyone has lost the passion and found it again, because I sure did and wow not anymore, and only 12 more days till he arrives for vacation, whoo hooo.

wow!! all these lucky ladies in one place!??! add me to the group because i've married the best as well!!!

i think it would be very interesting if any of the women or men here were to post that their fiance/spouse was NOT the best they ever had... wouldnt THAT be a hornets nest?

hahahahaha!

That would be pretty awful. I know for me, it's the complete truth. Can't speak for anyone else though.

it would only be a hornet's nest if the 'other' spouse was also a member!!

didn't stop someone from posting this once:

QUOTE

Nothing wrong with kissing... but slobber is GROSS! And I'd like it much better if my husband had better oral hygiene. Poor baby, it's not his fault that his teeth are such a mess and we can't afford to get them all pulled... Every time we get into serious kissing I get a sore throat the next day, so I prefer to stick to the light stuff and he can keep his saliva to himself...

yeah... I couldn't believe someone posted that on a public forum!

i mean, it's one thing to just have that as an issue, its completely another to tell people about it.

.. also makes me wonder what oral is like for them... like... does it burn when she pees the next day? :x

One minute's enough. Get in, get off, get out.

Let's see if my post gets deleted for being too graphic or something but:

People (by which I mean "people who keep saying 'hours' or even 'more than 25 minutes'"), the question the poll is asking is:

"Once the man's penis is actually in the woman's vagina, how long does it take before he ejaculates?"

Personally, I think hours of that would hurt. The longest experience of that I've ever had was over 15 minutes, and it was starting to hurt by the end.

Hon, that could have happened for a few reasons:

a) You weren't relaxed and enjoying it enough (ie 'wet');

The man was too rough;

c) He was absolutely HUGE, which takes some skill on his part to not make things unpleasant and probably some past experience on your part - experience that assures you it might be pleasant and not hurt.

Personally, there's nothing I like better than a long hard ride. As long as he knows when you are satisfied and 'finishes up' before it DOES get to be too much.

All quite possible; I know I'm quite small and I seem to always find the huge guys! And I find that any sustained activity (sexually) makes me want to move on to something else before 15 minutes have passed, whether it's kissing my neck or whatever. (And keeping in mind that at that point, we'd probably been at it for two or three hours altogether already.)

However, I still believe that the people who say that the intercourse part of sex *always* takes *hours* are either misunderstanding the question, or flat-out lying. Who has time to set aside hours of time on a regular basis? (Because we know from other polls that everyone on this board has sex several times a week.) I mean, once in a while, sure—but not *every* time.

Hahahahaha....remind you of fishing stories?

The answer is easy: after the woman ''cums'' or while the woman is ''cumming''. There is no time for that, it depends. Ok, I won't go any further...

very true ... maybe the definition should have been a bit more clearly defined ... i believe the clock starts ticking the moment activity begins (be it oral or intercourse) until ejaculation ... besically how long he can maintain his 'excitement'! so my original vote of 25+ minutes stands!

Sting once mentioned to Bob Geldof that he could make love for eight hours. What
he didn't say was that this included four hours of begging and then dinner and a movie.

tantric sex FTW!!!!

I Beg to differ! My very British husband, would likely agree with your comment "if you aren't going to spend at least an hour, why bother". I wonder who they polled in this, sacks of potatoes?

I'm with ya, sparkofcreation. Why anyone would want to have sex "for hours" is beyond me.
No matter how you twist it, it's repetitive and gets boring after a while.

I think this is the survey she was talking about.

http://online.wsj.com/public/article/SB112....html?mod=blogs

Seems to me the "Viagra" craze can change the entire dynamic of this poll.

Fortunately I do not require Viagra (yet and hopefully ever), but I have heard of people using it to extend the experience.

LMAO @ this poll!!

25+!!
Since Gary and I are only together for two weeks at a time we try to make each time count! He has the ability to hold off his "climax" until I have fully satisfied myself! Sometimes I get a little greedy and take 6 or 7 "helpings" for myself! He really knows what I want and gives it his all until we collapse into each others arms for a nice little nap with a satisfied smile on my face!I LOVE MY GARY!!!

Honestly after a while it's just chafing.

i've only noticed chafing after 15 nights in a row!!

You're a sick, perverted individual who should be drummed out of our decent, moral society

Haha, how true.
Honestly, who's going to admit tha their guy only goes for 2 mins each time?
This reminds me of the several bra-polls. I'll pass.
If you feel the need to brag, it's probably not THAT great.


(Still fun to read the replies though, keep at it. I want to know who'll out-do who... and stuff... Actually, nevermind, this will be taken the wrong way. Take care, everyone! )

lol . lets just say i am satisfied