Hi All,
I've never visited this forum before to post, but have skimmed the occasional discussion. Our story is mostly known by folks in the K-1 and Foreign Embassy discussion forums, so you might be unformilliar with our case. Here's a brief;
We are probably one of the youngest couples going through this process, that is the K-1. We had known each other 5 years previously before my fiance, Andy proposed online then officially when we first met face to face in June 2005. As you can see by our timeline we have had many obsticals and delays but despite that we are still fighting and now awaiting an interview date. Andrew and I have baggage, not the sort most have like children or divorces. But medical baggage, we both have a chronic condition which slowly worsens and have a heap of medical notes each. We are STRONGLY aware that when it comes time for my medical in London (I have arranged special arrangements with permission from London Embassy to have medical and interview on same day) that my medical condition may cause a denial. I have armed myself with doctors letters on my health and factsheets on the illness to help. We also understand because we both depend on benefits (Andys on SSI) myself on DLA finationally even together we were below the poverty line. So we have a co-sponcer. But despite this we are also aware despite all our hard work and "paperwork" we have prepared to throw at them in our favor, it may not work. Don't get us wrong we ARE extremely positive despite relatives constantly pushing the fact we might not get approved. We have endured every possible obstical in this process so far....including an RFE, getting caught up in requirement changes, getting special permission aswell as battling with other companies to give us evidence to supply to help with our case. We are SO trying to keep a bright look on things that if we got through near 9 months of this...we'll get there in the end. But if we don't, we need to know what to do. We're the type of people who need to be somewhat aware of the proceedure we face if we are denied this visa. Because we know in our hearts that if that happens and we don't know what the next step is, we will be in a complete mess emotionally. This is where I need to ask a few questions if anybody can give ANY even the smallest bit of information that'd be great. We need to be prepared for what happens either way, and if we do get knocked back, we need to be able to focus straight for that light at the end of the tunnel and get going with what we have to do asap. We don't want to be in a situation where we're denied and totally clueless on what to do next.
Here's what we'd like to ask;
1. I have read of a medical waiver but what I have read seems to say that you can go through that root if you were denied because of "mental" illness nothing really mentioned about physical. Our conditions DO NOT affect us mentally and never will just physically. If this medical waiver is the road we have to go down, is physical illness and mental the same waiver as what I saw, despite it highlighting denial via mental illness more?
2. My father speaks of appeal precedures? Is that the same thing as getting a waiver? Can a appeal/waiver overide a denial?
3. If the reason for denial is finational despite a co-sponcer, is a different appeal/waiver procedure available? What is that called?
4. For either medical or finational grounds of denial am I right in thinking we will end up waiting a further 6 months with our case going through AP?
5. What happens if we are refused a waiver for either of both situations? Can we attempt another visa root? Perhaps a k3? Or would the only option to be then that Andy would have to come to England in order for us to be together?
6. I heard for overstays people are denied (example) and have to write a letter of hardship to ...(no idea). Is this part of an appeal/waiver process or something different? Is it the same if you are denied on medical or finational grounds, that you need to write a letter of hardship?
We have absolute NO idea how waivers/appeals work in this process despite learning so much about the K-1 stages and ins and outs and all our difficultes and obsticals.
I know the majority of you will say we really need an attorney because our case is so complex, despite we've come this far on our own. But getting an attorney is not an option, even the MDA hasn't responded to our request for support.
Any input, advice, experiances ....anything would be great. Thank you!