Thought I would share this information with you all.......
My mother was not going to be our co-sponser because she thought 10 years was a really long time to be held responsible for someone. I decided that I would go to an immigration lawyer to help with our case because it is taking a really long time and I won't be making good money until August.
My attorney told me that the I-864 says that if the beneficiary becomes a US citizen then the co-sponser is no longer bound to the agreement. According to my attorney to become a US citizen it takes about 3 years and you must take English classes (something that my husband will do anyway) ..... now, I am not totally sure about the particulars of becoming a citizen, but in my case my mother was much more confident about signing the I-864 with a 3 - 5 year commitment as opposed to a 10 year or longer commitment. She has now decide that she will sign as long as he takes the steps to become a citizen.
I don't know if anyone else if having a hard time convincing a sponser but this may help.
One more thing - I live in El Paso (on border of Mexico) and my lawyer told me that the US consulate in Mexico is particularly picky about certain things and that the new thing about only sending in 1 year of tax returns does not fly there. He told me that they still consider it necessary to be 3 years.
