QUOTE(phirephly @ Jun 12 2006, 02:58 AM)

hi brittanie and welcome. you should check out your
visa options and decide what's best for you. And no, as you'll learn quickly here, you definitely won't be required to live here right away. As a matter of fact, you cannot. You will have to wait for the CR1 visa process to complete, which seems to average about a year. Most of us could only *wish* that we were required to be together immediately. Sounds like you're a lot more patient than a lot of here are

Check out the link above, I think it will address most of your concerns/questions, otherwise, post back again.

ttyl,
mich
hi mich! and thanks, I did look at the link, Ive actually been looking into the Direct Consular thing and seeing what the qualificatins are and whether or not im able to file for this, but i think he must reside within canada in order to do so =(
that sucks cause it seemed like hte best option by far!

QUOTE(Jersey Girl @ Jun 12 2006, 07:32 AM)

Hi brittanie. If you have a boyfriend, he could apply for K1, the fiancee visa. If you have a husband, he could apply for the K3, the spouse visa.
Generally speaking, these "non-immigrant K visas" are the quickest route (6 months?) but it's difficult to predict, especialy now, since there's a hold up due to a new law: IMBRA (International Marriage Brokers Regulation Act). Once here on a non-immigrant K visa, you'd apply for an Adjustment of Status (another few months waiting). Then you'd be a full-fledged, legal immigrant, a permanent resident who's eligible to work. I hesitate to predict times, but it could take a year in total. The K visa allows you to be united with your boyfriend in the States quicker, and complete the process while living in the States. At least that's the theory.
The other route, which generally takes longer (a year?) before you can enter the States legally, is the CR-1 immigrant visa. You'd be a legal permanent resident and eligible to work as soon as you get here. Your boyfriend applies for this "immigrant visa" in any case, since it's a requirement when applying for the non-immigrant K visa. Interestingly for some K people: their CR-1 gets approved faster than their K visa. That's when they decide which one to pursue.
How long do you want to be separated? If you can hold on for a year (or so) because you want to live and work in Canada for some time, consider CR-1. But if you're madly in love and can't stand to be away from each other, consider the K1 or K3. Whatever you decide, it's a lengthy, expensive process with a new kind of stress. The more you know beforehand, the easier it will be.
People here are very friendly, funny, and helpful. But if it all seems overwhelming, and your boyfriend doesn't want to deal with the paperwork, which is considerable, you can consider using a good immigration lawyer. Whatever you decide, you're in for a 6 to 12 month journey (more or less). Welcome and good luck!
that is odd that the CR-1 gets approved quicker in some cases

Am I allowed to apply for both at once and jsut go with whatever one goes faster??
and we dont want to be seperated another day, so the shorter the better. He especially is havign a rough time with it. Ive been calling customs and my US consulate in toronto trying to figure out what exactly i need to do right now, but im finding that this site ismuch more useful then any of those automated machines that are passing me from one place ot the next! I just wish they could offer some insight as to DCF. I emailed Montreal about it so im sure they'll get back to me
people here are friendly, i thought by now they'd tellme to take a hike cause i know so little and am so confused on everything!