QUOTE(mary&tom @ Jul 18 2006, 11:33 AM)

QUOTE(irishgirl73 @ Jul 18 2006, 11:10 AM)

I know-I can't believe they gave me all Gav's info-just asked for his name & birthdate then he read me the whole report. I am going to call the embassy to ask exactly what they want-just like you said I am sure there will have to be a record for each conviction(he has 2 drunk & disorderly). I was just suprised that he had info for the one, but nothing else. He said there was only one incident in the computer under his name.
maybe he needs a different record from 2 court offices? God I drive myself crazy
the embassy has been pretty helpful-I am going to call them Thursday
they should give him something-you are right even a day would be something, you should call & make some inquiries-I have been lucky with the people in Dublin-they are always very nice when I call. Your whole situation is just bull-sh*t..................are you guys out of options?
well I don't think he would fly all the way here for a day! the horrible part is that he was off work with a broken toe all of may and june.. and it was may 10th that i had to leave the Uk.. if only he could have come here to help me during that time .. even though he wasn't at his best physically. I suppose if you are off work with sick leave though you arent meant to leave the country.. lol.
when we received the denial we also received intructions for how to appeal. It would have had to be done very quickly and we were numb and unable to think or function for a few days.. then we just got down to business arranging things so I could move there.... finding a place big enough for us. We had been together in that two room flat for over four months!!! they told us at the embassy to not move while we waited for the waiver. we actually had a bigger place lined up when we went to the interview.. we would have moved the next week. we really didnt expect them to let us file the waiver application, and as it turns out they should not have.
anyway, what would have been the point in filing the appeal. we were denied on the grounds that the charge was unwaiverable. we would have had to come up with new evidence or information and we couldn't. even if we had, I was told appeals take a year or two or even more. we couldnt drag this out any longer just to be denied again. I am alot older than most of you.. I don't want anymore of our time together to be stolen from us. We won't have 50 years together.
I just have to somehow find more energy to clear out this house... i have lived in it for 30 years! Its huge! It has been very slow going. Some days I feel like the task is impossible. I had a buyer for my house but at the moment thats not looking good.. there are problems with their financing. the morgage company is refusing to finance it unless I first do $12,000 worth of repairs!!! Well I don't have that kind of money and how long would THAT take even if i did? I need something positive to happen soon.
you are right... our situation is just bull-sh*t
back to your situation... does he need two reports? are there two things on his police report?
mary
I sit here & bi*ch about us waiting 8 months & you are going through all this................puts things in perspective. You mention a broken toe-I broke my collarbone a few weeks ago-what I wouldn't give to have him here with me now-it is 115 degrees here & I can't even pull my hair up
moving? God bless you.............I have moved several times but 30 years? you accumulate a lot in 30 years-don't ya? You are right-don't waste any time apart-so sorry that all of this happened to you guys

everything will work out soon!
I just called someone else at the court building-he needs the case numbers or the court dates-she said that the one was most likely dismissed-and that will be what the report says. If he doesn't remember the dates(somehow I don't think he will), I am going to call the embassy & see if they will read the numbers off to me- I may get someone nice. If not-it's back to the garda station for another report. I swore I told him to make a copy of that report!!!
Colleen
QUOTE(rebeccajo @ Jul 18 2006, 11:57 AM)

Colleen, I see way up earlier in this thread that Paul C thought you might possibly need to file a waiver.
You've got the attention of a lot of people in this thread who are VERY knowledgeable about waivers.
How many charges are on his report? What types of charges? Any fines? Any clear simple info you can put in this thread might keep you from having any more delays.....and I know you don't want any more of those.
drunk & disorderly(2) he paid a fine for one( I think it was 150 euro)
I just called the court and apparently one of the charges was dismissed.
I looked all this up on the net & from what I have read-he shouldn't be denied b/c the convictions are not punishable by a jail sentence of 5 years(when there are multiple convictions). Paul did say he may need one but I really don't think he will. I have been wrong before-so I may be on this one as well