I vote gang member. I have only had one gay relative that I know of. All the atheists in my family are in the closet , but if they came out it wouldn't be any drama. In a nutshell, you can be gay and/or an atheist and live, but as a gang member, I'd be afraid your days would be numbered.

I voted for gang member, generally speaking.

If you're referring to my husband, I would change my vote to "I am gay" as my choice.

lmfao

Which loved one?

Atheist wouldn't bother me from any loved one.

Gang member would bother me from all loved ones.

Gay would bother me if it was my wife haha. If I had kids, it would be weird, but I wouldn't call it a shock. Chances are I'd 'suspect' they were before they told me anyway so there really wouldn't be much shock value.

My husband: I am gay.
Anybody else: Gang member.

I have nothing against gays or atheists.
I LOVE that V quote, gimy. It's one of our favorite movies.

Interestingly, though, a recent study found that atheists are the group that the most people said was "untrustworthy" (as in, the question was "Do you think the following groups are untrustworthy?" and more people said "Yes" to atheists than any other group). Wish I could find the study. I don't remember if gang members were included, but surely they're less trustworthy than atheists? Then again, maybe it's just because I know a lot of atheists. Including the minister of my church.

lol... gang member....

i AM an oxymoron (since nurses are the most trusted profession)!!! an atheist nurse!!!

same here

ooops! I answered "gay" because I thought we were talking about the worst thing our S/O could say to us.

what about a gay gang member!?!? i never even thought about that option!!

I'm sorry... about the only thing that would devastate me to hear from my husband is 'I have a terminal illness' and that's not on the list... 'I murdered somebody in cold blood' would probably do it too.

But since I had to choose one of the three I chose 'I am a gang member' because that tends to involve drugs and violence and sudden nasty deaths or lengthy terms in prison and the other two options are merely personal life choices that don't affect your ability to have a long and healthy life.

Like others have said:
My fiance - I'm gay
Others - gang member
My family already has people who are gay or atheist

I'm leaving.

Yodrak

that would be my vote

I concurr with that.

or-"I am leaving-and I am gay"

a gay athiest is fine with me... gang members get killed!!!

I have heard I am gay from my brother and dealt with it fine

gang member...you van get your cock blown off just for guilt by association

all the above...its all bull shi t

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what about a gay gang member!?!? i never even thought about that option!!
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Well, I would freak if a loved one said they were a gay atheist in a gang. LOL!

1) GAY! NP, unless you're my fiancé. He's not. Trust me!
2) I have religious beliefs, and being an atheist is NOT at the top of my list.
3) Gangs are NOT kewl

So, basically, I wouldn't want any loved one being any of the above, however, if they were, I wouldn't stop loving them, it would just give me MORE of a reason to turn attention to them.

My loved one heard from me that I am an atheist and didn´t seem to care much.

Gang member, bad, I´d break it off, but gay? Nothing against gays at all, but I´d feel like ######.

all 3 of them.

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If it was my husbnad and he told me any of those I'd freak! If it was anyone else, I'd dread them being a gang member.