QUOTE(caligirl23 @ Aug 1 2008, 08:30 PM)

QUOTE(roi_aggie @ Aug 1 2008, 09:44 AM)

QUOTE(Mrs_S @ Aug 1 2008, 12:24 PM)


Oh my!!!
QUOTE(Mrs_S @ Aug 1 2008, 12:24 PM)

1. You cannot apply for naturalization until you have been a permanent resident for 5 years as you are not still married to the USC petitioner
2. You will have to add the misdemeanor with all details in your I-751 application: Question 7 on the form says, "Have you ever been arrested, detained, charged, fined or imprisoned for breaking or violating any law or ordinance (excluding traffic regulations), or committed any crime....."
3. If you battered your spouse, I doubt the USCIS would look favorably on your application (just my opinion).
All true statements Mrs_S. Sounds like getting past removing conditions will be hard enough, let alone naturalization, which requires good moral character. (my opinion as well)
Mrs. S and Roi Aggie: About the misdeaminor incident it is not mine. It is my friend who is inquiring that. She came here as an immigrant visa. And now she will be here for almost 5 years. Sorry if i mis lead you guys. But my problem is my own paperwork. Im really thankfull that u guys share your ideas with me. God bless you both and thank you so much. Lets talk about my application: Yes i know my ex-husband's SS # coz it is in our divorce papers. And i am glad that the affidavits is not really that important because i am really stressed about it and i want my paperworks to be completed as what they requested. And before i send this out i wanna make sure that everything is there. By the way about the pictures how did u guys do the pictures since we got a bunch of it from where we started to the end we have pictures together. So did u guys put all the pictures in something to make it neat and clear for them? did u write a little note on each pictures? please i need more advice.
Even the affidavits is not a must...your case as divorce waiver, I would suggest so. Whatever "more" that you can show, especially because you won't have many easy -at-hand information, the better. Don't you know anybody in Hawaii or where you at that knew your husband?
If you were in a joint credit card...you CAN call the financial institution and informed your credit card number and who you are, you will need his SSN, they must probably will need to verify your identity for privacy issues or you just can go to the place where you had your joint credit card/bank statement and explain your situation. Get your marriage certificate AND divorce decree for you.
Sorry, about asking you some questions but I needed so I can help you. Where did you live with him before and how long? Give us a timeline...
My best advice is that STOP thinking what your ex husband can do for you, the chances that he help you are minimal if he just say that he only have the most recent one...BS he can get older ones for a little fee that you can say you can pay. But if he wants you out of the country...I don't know why you think he will help you. Forget about his family...it's amazing but family regardless they know somebody did something wrong/needs help/etc are the least people who will get involve and they can care less about you.
You need more comingled information...you need to show that you TWO life together in the same place as a husband and wife.
Good that you get the pictures, do you have emails from him? old ones? actually even the "chats" that you are having with him, save them. All are evidence. Do you have copy of the utility bills regardless that they are only at his name, your Hawaiian ID should show the same adress..not necessarily everything has to be at both names but you need to show that you share the same address.
I assumed you were married in 05 and live in Hawaii during 05, didn't you file taxes in 05? or at least him? he should apply as married...for that matter, there should be a transcript of it. For 2006 even you were in divorce proceedings...at the end of the year, you both probably apply as married filing separate...does not matter, get a transcript of it. Do you work? If so, didn't you have personal data that showed that you were married in your previous employer? Get that data. You need insurance? Didn't he has health insurance covering you? what about cars? car insurance???
You can PM if you want. Good luck.