QUOTE(Chriza @ Jul 17 2008, 10:48 PM)

maybe the criteria is the speed (of course).. so what to do first?? coz as for me (I'm K1 visa and it's different from the K3 and CR1), so I don't know what to advise her
CR-1 - I-130 petition. One each for each potential visa applicant (Spouse and first child). This assumes the second child has claim to US citizenship.
K-3 - I-130 (filed above) then I-129F.
Since both petitions can be active concurrently, you can do both and then wait to see which one finishes first.
If you are going to advise then READ THE GUIDES... If not then the USC should join and READ THE GUIDES. Your friend cannot begin this process. It is the responsibility of the USC.