QUOTE(WideAwakeInTheUSA @ Jul 4 2008, 06:47 PM)

sorry.... you're right, it is irresponsible of me to not wear one ... it is only because I remember when no one did and I enjoyed it so much. Such a free feeling. We wear one now all the time since Tan got fined. 
No need for apologies. I'm no Angel myself. I didn't wear one around Cai Be (the short trips), but always had one on for the long trips. I guess that makes me a hypocrite!
We almost wiped out on the way to My Tho in March. We were on our way to sign our marriage papers. An old man pulled out onto the highway without looking. My foot clipped his motorbike. I just hunkered down and waited for the crash. Somehow Ba managed to keep us upright! I turned around and started yelling at the old man and he started yelling at me. Good times!
Congratulations on the fact that you are able to return. Maybe we can all get together in November or December.
P.S. James, I'm essentially a Scaredy-Cat!
Yes, the scariest moment on the motorbike was when a little child ran into the road when we were turning the corner. We didn't see him until it was too late. Tan slammed on the breaks but we nicked the poor kid. He fell and cried but was OK (thank God!!!!!). Apparently, the law in VN is that you are ALWAYS at fault - even if a drunk driver hits you and HE dies, you go to jail. Isn't that a nice law? I can't imagine why people are trying to get out of that country, can you?

hihihihi ...
Tan is probably the worst VN driver there is, to make matters worse. He takes way too many risks and is totally a rebel on the bike. However, I LOVE going around with him on motorbike because when we are stopped in traffic and tons of people are around, they always assume he is my XE OM (hired motorbike driver) NOT my lover... it gives me GREAT joy and titillation to start rubbing his arms seductively and kissing his neck to the surprise of the other drivers. Or I will massage his neck and scratch his back and he will yell angrily at me in Vietnamese: HURRY UP!!! DO IT BETTER WHITE GIRL OR I AM NOT PAYING YOU.

I think I already told the story of the foot massage in the park where he did the same thing. He cracks me up.
OK all, I am off to VN tonight ... PM me if you want to meet up! If I make it out of the hotel room to check VJ, I'll get in touch!

hihihihihihi I am so BAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAD. What do you want? 2 months without my yellow stallion ... and this time I am taking some fun "extras" that are too X rated to mention but they include that oil that gets hot when you blow on it and some altoids. YOU FIGURE IT OUT.
ILOVETAN