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Kevin and Tuyen
QUOTE(pasaitoh @ Jun 27 2008, 11:47 AM) *
Anyone have any suggestion on how to go about keeping your petition at HCMC? ME won't be back until July 10th, so 13 days is a long time. Any relevant past experience would be great!


My Rep tried to get them to keep our case in HCM, but it was too late. The Consulate said it was already gone.
Dave_Thao
QUOTE(Dave_Thao @ Jun 27 2008, 12:03 PM) *
QUOTE(pasaitoh @ Jun 27 2008, 11:47 AM) *
Anyone have any suggestion on how to go about keeping your petition at HCMC? ME won't be back until July 10th, so 13 days is a long time. Any relevant past experience would be great!



When we were denied and the consulate told us it was being sent back, I called USCIS and talked to a real person. They told me I could write a hand written motion to the consulate requesting that they keep the case there. I sent a letter asking them to please hold the case. I told them I was flying to Vietnam and I would like to rebut the CO'c decision. That didn't work. I also emailed them. This was their reply:
After a thorough review of the facts of this case, a consular officer has recommended that this petition be returned to the U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Service (USCIS) for their further review and possible revocation. Your fiancée's case is now being prepared for return to the service center at which her petition was filed. A consular officer will prepare a memorandum explaining our concerns regarding the case for the service center's review. Once this process is completed, we will inform your fiancée and return all personal items submitted in support of the application to her.

If you would like to meet a consular office to discus about this case, you can request for an appointment upon your arrival in Hochiminh City. At that time, you should send your request to the Information Unit. You can send your request by fax, email or in person at the Consulate. We regret that we can schedule an appointment in advance.

Sincerely,

Info Unit Staff
Consular Section
U.S. Consulate General HCMC
Tel: (84-8) 822 9433 - ext 4636
Fax: (84-8) 824 5572
E-mail: hcmcinfo@state.gov (regarding visa issues)
acshcmc@state.gov (regarding services for U.S. citizens)


Maybe a senator or congressman could request it stay there until your attorney arrives back in HCMC. I am not sure.



I forgot to mention that I received that email on November 13 and the case file didn't leave the consulate until December 6.
ILoveTan
My Mom read through my I-129f packet yesterday and started CRYING. She said: If they don't approve you, something is seriously wrong with the system.

I think that is the point, something is seriously wrong with this system.

If you want my blunt honesty, I think HCMC consulate doubts (in general) that Americans can truly love Vietnamese and vice versa. The culture and language are soooo different, how can they fit together? And too many scams on both ends have made matters even worse. I don't know he we are ever to combat this, but there must be a way!

Tan and I are extremely (as in EXTREMELY) stressed by the prejudice and nasty comments we are getting. We trust each other completely but its hard to be far from someone and hear sh*t about them all day long. I get nice comments like: "How naive are you?? He is working you girlfriend! He just wants a greencard, viets will go to any length, no matter how they have to fake it" Not only does this offend my intelligence (as if I wouldn't know someone was faking me out) but it also implies that viets have no heart and can't fall in love. ((tell me .. is he faking crying, faking arguing and being the world's stubbornest man, faking begging me to forget everything and just come be with him in VN because he wants to die without me, and faking his b*ners, too? And the Oscar goes to TAN - best actor of countryside Vietnam!))

He gets: "When is she sending you money? Has she sent you money yet? If she is not sending you money, why are you with a foreigner? She is just going to use you in the u.s. to do her cooking and cleaning and she will never take you outside. U.S. life is no different than VN - just stay here and marry a REAL woman. Americans have no soul, she will hurt you, she can't love you like you love her." In fact, Tan has stopped speaking to his dad because his dad was saying some things he shouldn't and Tan would protect me to the death. sad.gif

helpsmilie.gif

I know how everyone feels ... it is so hard to have to PROVE your love. How do you prove an elusive intangible? And when is the last time some cafe receipts and a plane ticket proved love? This whole thing is backwards.

and we have to hear this BS day in and day out and deal with being far apart and the worry of the legendary HCMC consulate on our shoulders. At this point, I am thinking heavily about going to VN to stay with him until his interview. He begs me for this daily and I really resent giving up this time together. We both just found the love of our lives and we have to sit on other ends of the earth? We both just waste time anyway fantasizing about each other or sitting on webcam for 5 hours like two morons.

*Funny Tan moment (for those of you familiar with his unique sense of humor) Tan showed up on a webcam in a t-shirt he had custom made that said: I LOVE WHITE PEOPLE

rofl.gif cracked me up. (for those of you that don't get it, he is kidding - we just have a weird non-PC sense of humor thing together)

I guess the point is, I do see why the consulate doubts this stuff but they also need to be reasonable enough to see that if someone can provide what they are looking for, they need to ease up. There ARE real relationships coming from Vietnam - not just scams. I can attest to that. yes.gif

Isn't there an ALL Vietnam visa forum? Everyone could band together and perhaps actually do something to change this system. If enough people fight together, we can change things. Any thoughts?

I only wish everyone my blessing that true love WILL prevail. Keep the faith and keep fighting.
*hugs*
ILOVETAN
pasaitoh
QUOTE(Dave_Thao @ Jun 27 2008, 01:12 PM) *
I forgot to mention that I received that email on November 13 and the case file didn't leave the consulate until December 6.



Well that is a little bit hopeful. It took about 4 business weeks for them to send it back. Its only been 1 and a half for me. So there is hope my congressman might get it held up long enough for ME to get a whack at it.

O please, o please, o please, o please let them be slow and lazy government bureaucrats at the consulate and fast bureaucrats at my congressman's office!

Yeah I know that is a lot to ask for...
bluegreen
I just read this thread because it showed up in a little box of "similar topics" at the bottom of my screen.

I'm no help at all, and probably extremely naive, but reading all these stories just made me cry on what should (and is) a really happy day for me. I just had my GC approved today after 4.5 months. I entered the US as a visitor, plans changed, I got married, I stayed. End of story. After a year of long distance dating where we hopped on a cheap flight pretty much whenever we liked and then complained about how hard it was to be apart.

My interview today pretty much consisted of my husband and the IO trading snowboarding stories.

I know doing things the way I did (no spousal visa) makes people's blood boil, but it was an option available to me, and I took it, and I have had a remarkably smooth journey.

And so when I read your stories, my heart aches for you, and I am reminded how incredibly unfair this process is. I know exactly *why* my process was easy, and it is pretty obvious *why* it is made so difficult for you.

I'm not writing this note to gloat about my approval or come off as naive, but just to tell you that we can all see how criminal this is, even those of us on the outside who have enjoyed pleasant interactions with USCIS and their agencies, and I am pretty sure not one of us thinks it is fair, or right.

And to say good luck:) If you two can get through such an incredibly stressful process, you are set up for a lifetime.
Jack & Xuan
QUOTE(AmericanGentleman @ Jun 27 2008, 08:34 AM) *
QUOTE(pasaitoh @ Jun 27 2008, 12:24 AM) *
I'm so low I'm not expecting any help at this point, but the fact that I am trying to do something about it is keeping my head above water.

The worst part of this is having to explain to everyone you know why you didn't get the visa. And then them agreeing with you that someone must be on drugs not to approve it.

Sigh...


I am right there with you buddy. This is truely a miserable feeling. On the outside I am putting on a strong front. I am joking with people and trying to be a pillar of strength for my fiance. But on the inside I am falling apart. The shock and surprise that this is happening is turning into a cold reality and I am searching for a place in my soul to shelf it so I am not constantly tripping over it.

Although I am doing everything I can to keep the current petition alive, I am beginning to plan for round 2. Rather than filing another K1 petition and having my dream wedding/honeymoon at Niagra Falls in the US, I am thinking our best course would be to marry in Vietnam and got for the K3/CR1 visa. Maybe an effin marriage certificate will convince the CO next time that our relationship is real. I figure we should have some resolution either way on the K-1 by the end of the summer so I am looking to plan a trip to Vietnam in late October. I just have to find out what the process is for marriage over there. So if any of you guys will be in Vietnam at that time, I will buy you a bowl of Pho.

That said, I am also going to research immigration requirements to other countries. I will not stand for round 2 being denied. I love America but I refuse to let America run my life. If it take leaving the states, then that is what we will do.



I have put a lot of thought into moving to Vietnam myself. Have you thought about that? I think I will go for Xuan's interview and if she does not get her Visa for some reason I think I will just stay and renew my Visa every 6 months.
AmericanGentleman
Yes Jack, I have thought about moving to Vietnam. At least temporarily. I just cleared it with my employer that should I need to, I could work remotely, so at least I can keep my job. But the logisitics of such a move would take almost as long as a new petition unless I just drop everything.
Kevin and Tuyen
QUOTE(Jack & Xuan @ Jun 27 2008, 03:13 PM) *
QUOTE(AmericanGentleman @ Jun 27 2008, 08:34 AM) *
QUOTE(pasaitoh @ Jun 27 2008, 12:24 AM) *
I'm so low I'm not expecting any help at this point, but the fact that I am trying to do something about it is keeping my head above water.

The worst part of this is having to explain to everyone you know why you didn't get the visa. And then them agreeing with you that someone must be on drugs not to approve it.

Sigh...


I am right there with you buddy. This is truely a miserable feeling. On the outside I am putting on a strong front. I am joking with people and trying to be a pillar of strength for my fiance. But on the inside I am falling apart. The shock and surprise that this is happening is turning into a cold reality and I am searching for a place in my soul to shelf it so I am not constantly tripping over it.

Although I am doing everything I can to keep the current petition alive, I am beginning to plan for round 2. Rather than filing another K1 petition and having my dream wedding/honeymoon at Niagra Falls in the US, I am thinking our best course would be to marry in Vietnam and got for the K3/CR1 visa. Maybe an effin marriage certificate will convince the CO next time that our relationship is real. I figure we should have some resolution either way on the K-1 by the end of the summer so I am looking to plan a trip to Vietnam in late October. I just have to find out what the process is for marriage over there. So if any of you guys will be in Vietnam at that time, I will buy you a bowl of Pho.

That said, I am also going to research immigration requirements to other countries. I will not stand for round 2 being denied. I love America but I refuse to let America run my life. If it take leaving the states, then that is what we will do.



I have put a lot of thought into moving to Vietnam myself. Have you thought about that? I think I will go for Xuan's interview and if she does not get her Visa for some reason I think I will just stay and renew my Visa every 6 months.


Tuyen and I discussed me moving to VN living for a year then doing a DCF.

I thought about moving to Austrailia also.
cjindia

I went thru this in May 2007, case was sent back so fast, that congressmen and senators couldnt do anything about it. We refiled immediately and overburdened them with evidence and I personally went to the embassy, and my fiance(at the time) told them I was here for any questions. New Delhi is very nasty and can refuse visas.. but the second time around.. we were approved no problem... but we completely overburdened and at this time(8 months later),,.,the congressman was so close to the case, he wrote a letter to the embassy weeks ahead and told them the whole history and then called 2 days before.. and finally got it approved!
Tyrobe
I am so sorry to hear this. Hang in there, buddy. My wife also got the interview from this Asian man and she said that CO was one of the toughest. I wish HCMC would take into account the emotional toll their decisions affect on real lives.
martindart
QUOTE(pasaitoh @ Jun 26 2008, 09:24 PM) *
Well everyone,

I've gotten everything my congressman's office asked for together. And I will hand deliver it tomorrow afternoon. Hopefully they can help in some way.

Also Ngoc called ME's assistant in Ho Chi Minh City and has setup an appointment to see him.

I'm so low I'm not expecting any help at this point, but the fact that I am trying to do something about it is keeping my head above water.

The worst part of this is having to explain to everyone you know why you didn't get the visa. And then them agreeing with you that someone must be on drugs not to approve it.

Sigh...


This information is all so familiar… After my blue and green-sheeted letters came my way, I wanted my case sent back to USCIS so I could fight on USA soil at USCIS Nebraska, where I file in 2004. I won the case and the director of USCIS Nebraska reaffirmed my petition then sent it back to HCMC via NVC who sent it on to HCMC.

Petitions sent back to USA go from HCMC to NVC Portsmouth, from here, they sent to the service center where you filed the K-129, remember, all this travel takes time. After about a year we had a second interview where my fiancée forgot our engagement date…. She was nervous and we were blue sheeted again! The translator, a 21 y/o gal had too much involvement in the process and I protested that. I contacted ME, he got the ball moving again, and after more months she arrived in June 2007


All I can say is, if you love em, you dig in and wait, wait, wait, you keep your life as you do. I brought a computer form my Love Vo and we chatted/web cam daily. Keep life the best you can and keep fighting! If you quit, you never really loved that person. “Hang Tough” for me, birthdays will pass, holidays pass by and friends and family member(s) pass away. If you surrender, you will only kick yourself later saying; time have past... and I quit fighting... You will always tell yourself, “mai mai” (forever) thereafter, I should have stuck it out.

I found that using my Congressman office was rather useless. The Consulate in HCMC finds no threat from local Congressman involment sure, they, (my Congressman’s liaison) kept my hope up and gave me different information than what the consulate was giving me which only added to my frustrations.


Hang in there.

Don

pasaitoh
Small update. ME is heading back to HCMC tomorrow, and will be meeting with my fiancee early next week. My congressman got back to me and asked me to fill out a form allowing them to use my personal information and claim they are working on my case.

Meanwhile we have reassembled our entire case and reprinted everything and given it to ME's associates. Also I got notarized affidavits from my parents, brother and his fiancee, and my coworkers attesting to the validity of Ngoc and I's relationship.

I just hope this all can do some kind of good.
don2008
good luck, i hope you get the pink soon. i almost hired ME, i did have my fiancee consult with him after our first green slip. it seemed kinda of pricy so i decided to try on my own first and i guess we got lucky.
LuckyDucky
I hope it gets sorted out! I'll be sending my best.
morocco4ever
I hope I am not to late to add my 2 cents on this. Letters from family and friends that know you as a couple can be very beneficial. I would also say a letter from your fiance's 2nd cousin explaining the situation, and his part in introducing you would be very helpful as well.

We were denied a CR1 visa, so I know this process well. From what I understand they are now expiring petitions, so you have to start again. It is best if you can get it stopped at the consulate. If not you must wait for it to expire and then either file again or get married.

BTW, 15 months after the initial denial my husband got his visa. He has now been here for 1 1/2 years, and he was well worth the wait.

Good luck.
Huanyen
I'll have the interview next month. I have read many posts, learned many things from others' experience and prepared a lot of evidence to avoid a blue slip. Reading this thread makes me think all my preparation and evidences could go to the drain because of the translators.

There is nothing much I can do. I wish you all will unite soon
pasaitoh
ME just contacted me. He will be going to the consulate tomorrow about my (and others cases). Fingers are crossed!
Jack & Xuan
QUOTE(pasaitoh @ Jul 16 2008, 09:53 PM) *
ME just contacted me. He will be going to the consulate tomorrow about my (and others cases). Fingers are crossed!



Good luck
pasaitoh
Finally Good News!

Ngoc's visa has been approved after review by the chief CO! I don't really have any details outside of they changed their mind. But I really don't care either, just happy we finally got it!

Best 4 am phone call I ever got!

Dave_Thao
Great news!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Congrats!!!!!!!!!
Joe Six-Pack
Ellis is da' man! Keeping that a$$ in check! Congratulations.

Rodney n.
Glad everything worked out .smile.gif
PeterFB
Great News kicking.gif

Congrats and have a wonderful life together

Peter and Thi

I-129F Sent : 2007-05-26
I-129F NOA1 : 2007-06-11
I-129F RFE(s) :
RFE Reply(s) :
I-129F NOA2 : 2007-10-26
Touched: 2007-11-02
NVC Recieved: 2007-11-16
Consulate recieved ??????
Packet 3 sent 2007-12-11
Packet 3 received 2007-12-24
Packet 3 returned 2007-12-28
Packet 4 sent 2008-1-14
Email Reply with Interview Date 2008-1-23
Interview Date 2008-2-27
Passed Interview 2008-02-27
Visa Pick Up Date 2008-3-05
Received Visa 2008-2-29 (called to pick up earlier)
POE 2008-3-05 Los Angeles
Wedding 2008-4-26
cao
Cpngratulations
Kevin and Tuyen
That's wonderful news. Congratulations! good.gif
eric_and_teresa
QUOTE(pasaitoh @ Jul 21 2008, 07:34 AM) *
Finally Good News!

Ngoc's visa has been approved after review by the chief CO! I don't really have any details outside of they changed their mind. But I really don't care either, just happy we finally got it!

Best 4 am phone call I ever got!


Congratulations! smile.gif
Matt_Stevens
Wow. That never happens. Miracle!

Congrats all the way.
Thai family
Congrats on Ngoc's visa! Enjoy.
LuckyDucky
Congrats! That's great news!
tway22
Congrats
pasaitoh
Update - Pink Slip obtained today! Pickup for visa scheduled for 7/31!
Kang Lang
Congratulations!!!! kicking.gif
Guy&Hoa
Congrats and all the best, I know it feels like a such a relief from the emotional roller coaster ride from hell..!

ME is the goto guy for hard cases, he helped us as well and I recommend him highly..

Now you can start preparing your home for your new wife..smile.gif

-Guy&Hoa
pasaitoh
Visa received today at 3pm! Woo Hoo! No problems!

Now its just time to start planning for Ngoc to come here smile.gif

Jack & Xuan
I am very happy for you both. Now that you have the Visa you can enjoy the rest of your lives together. good.gif
Dave_Thao
Congrats! When you get a chance,can you please fill us in on what ME did for you and what happened when the Chief reviewed your case?
Good Luck on the rest of your journey! dancin5hr.gif good.gif
Rodney n.
My fiancée met with M.E. yesterday.after i heard this news i think my mind is made up to hire him. he gets the job done. smile.gif

Rodney
pasaitoh
QUOTE(Dave_Thao @ Jul 31 2008, 01:03 PM) *
Congrats! When you get a chance,can you please fill us in on what ME did for you and what happened when the Chief reviewed your case?
Good Luck on the rest of your journey! dancin5hr.gif good.gif


From what Marc told me, this was a weird one. He presented our case along with some others. He was told a few minutes later that our case had been approved. I don't know why it was miraculously approved. Marc had everything laid out with all our evidence, a direct rebuttal including case law & presidents. My thinking was between me pestering the consulate, my congressman contacting them, and Marc showing up to represent me, they just wanted to get rid of the case instead of looking like idiots. I have no other logical explanation.
PeterFB
QUOTE(pasaitoh @ Jul 31 2008, 09:12 PM) *
QUOTE(Dave_Thao @ Jul 31 2008, 01:03 PM) *
Congrats! When you get a chance,can you please fill us in on what ME did for you and what happened when the Chief reviewed your case?
Good Luck on the rest of your journey! dancin5hr.gif good.gif


From what Marc told me, this was a weird one. He presented our case along with some others. He was told a few minutes later that our case had been approved. I don't know why it was miraculously approved. Marc had everything laid out with all our evidence, a direct rebuttal including case law & presidents. My thinking was between me pestering the consulate, my congressman contacting them, and Marc showing up to represent me, they just wanted to get rid of the case instead of looking like idiots. I have no other logical explanation.


I think it's because Mark Ellis got the Consulate to read your evidence. Remember at the interview, the Consulate has little time to look at what you brought. Most of their opinion about your case is from what they read in your I-129f petition. If it's incomplete or confusing to the Consulate it's a blue slip. If they think there's a hint of fraud about your case, they don't want to let you have a visa. However, they have to be reasonable about that so if there's evidence to show that their worry about the possible fraud, they have to consider it. Sometimes they don't want to or they don't want to be the one who ok'ed fraudulant visa.

For example, Think about getting a check cashed at your bank, at a branch where no one knows you , usually no there wants to ok the check, they want you to deposit it then withdraw the money the next day. Even tho you have lots of money in your account and you've been banking there for years. Why? because then it's not their signature oking the check if the check gets returned to the bank as a fraudulant check. In the case of the bank, the person signing a fraudulant check could lose their job. Getting fired for taking a bad check would make it harder to get a job at another bank.

So HCMC Consulate Officer doesn't want on his record that he allowed a fraudulant visa, it could make chances of advancement, pay raises, etc more difficult.

In any case, it's great you got your visa!! good.gif

Enjoy your new life together!!
Peter and Thi

I-129F Sent : 2007-05-26
I-129F NOA1 : 2007-06-11
I-129F RFE(s) :
RFE Reply(s) :
I-129F NOA2 : 2007-10-26
Touched: 2007-11-02
NVC Recieved: 2007-11-16
Consulate recieved ??????
Packet 3 sent 2007-12-11
Packet 3 received 2007-12-24
Packet 3 returned 2007-12-28
Packet 4 sent 2008-1-14
Email Reply with Interview Date 2008-1-23
Interview Date 2008-2-27
Passed Interview 2008-02-27
Visa Pick Up Date 2008-3-05
Received Visa 2008-2-29 (called to pick up earlier)
POE 2008-3-05 Los Angeles
Wedding 2008-4-26
Huanyen
Congratulation, man!.... so happy to see approvals
I hope our case will be approved at the interview
RalphandHanh
I'm SO happy for you guys. Prayers = Miracles!


P.S. I'm trying to figure out my time line thingie smile.gif
luntian
kicking.gif kicking.gif kicking.gif
Yiyi and Chris
od!!! Best of Lucks!!! Congratulations!!
J & Q
Your case is almost exactly the same as ours except ours is being returned back to USCIS yet again. Hopefully Marc or someone can do something to stop this nonsense and get us our visa.

I wish the both of you a happy and promising future together.

Best regards,

Jeff


QUOTE(pasaitoh @ Jul 31 2008, 10:12 PM) *
QUOTE(Dave_Thao @ Jul 31 2008, 01:03 PM) *
Congrats! When you get a chance,can you please fill us in on what ME did for you and what happened when the Chief reviewed your case?
Good Luck on the rest of your journey! dancin5hr.gif good.gif


From what Marc told me, this was a weird one. He presented our case along with some others. He was told a few minutes later that our case had been approved. I don't know why it was miraculously approved. Marc had everything laid out with all our evidence, a direct rebuttal including case law & presidents. My thinking was between me pestering the consulate, my congressman contacting them, and Marc showing up to represent me, they just wanted to get rid of the case instead of looking like idiots. I have no other logical explanation.

Completely
QUOTE(pasaitoh @ Jun 25 2008, 03:07 PM) *
Hello Everyone,

Boy I wish I found this website a week or two ago. We in a similar boat to the thread AmericanGentleman started.

My fiancee, Ngoc had her interview at the HCMC Consulate on Monday the 16th at 8 am.

We thought we were really well prepared. We ran through the instructions multiple times, made sure we had everything in duplicate. Our lawyer (US Lawyer) said our case should be open and shut no problem. We had plenty of evidence and it was well documented. Ngoc listened and practiced sample questions prepared by our lawyer, and I grilled her to make sure we were prepared.

Then disaster struck.

Ngoc was interviewed by a Asian man and a female translator. Had we known about the translators, Ngoc would have done the interview in English. We only opted for the translator, because we didn't want any misunderstandings. Big mistake.

Looking back on what was asked, these seem to be the problem:

How did you meet? = My Uncle JBV and introduced us.
How did you Fiance propose? = He gave me a diamond ring and asked me to marry him. -- this lead to two more questions
You didn't have an engagement party? = No, just proposed with the ring
What is your relationship to your Uncle? What is your Uncle's relationship to your fiance? = My uncle is my Grandmother's Sister's Son (so really 2nd cousin). Uncle JBV and my fiance are friends.

Here is the big problem - Translator still says to the interviewer that Uncle JBV is an Uncle not a Grandmother's Sister's Son.

Then the BLUE slip asking for the following:

Two Electronic DS 156 (We had two typed ones -- ok no big deal, we goofed a little on the convoluted instructions)

List of Names, dates of birth, addresses of Family in the US -- Ok we can get this together fairly easily

Timeline of relationship - Ok no problem, can have it notorized at the embassy. Only problem is I write JBV is her 2nd cousin (which is 100% true).

Petitioner - Proof of purchase of 3 trips worth of airline tickets by credit card statement (weird considering my tickets are included in the packet with our proof, but not a problem)

We rush around all morning thinking we just need to turn this in, and we will be in good shape. Go back to the embassy at 3 pm. Told by security I cannot have my timeline notorized until 8 am. Ok no biggie, what is one more day?

We go back on the afternoon of June 17th at 1pm. We figure it shouldn't take like maybe one and a half hours. Four hours later Ngoc comes out crying saying " They Said We Lied!" WTF?

We got the GREEN SLIP:

Beneficiary and Petitionerstatement conflict = She says her Uncle introduced them and her uncle is friends with petitioner. Petitioner says 2nd cousin introduced them, and that Uncle is his best friend

Claim to have started communicating in March 2006, but email starts in August 2007.

Internet phone records only show billing, not phone number of petitioner or beneficiary

Photographs submitted as proof do not show the petitioner and beneficiary have spent more than 2 days together.

CASE BEING SENT BACK TO USCIS

WTF?

So I call the Consulate on the cab ride, and am told I cannot speak to a CO. Our case is being returned etc. I said your CO didn't do their job. I can prove he is wrong. They say ok, bring back the GREEN sheet with your proof.

So I write a nice letter explaining everything. The translators miscue, the fact that we are talking about the same exact person, regardless if he is her uncle or second cousin or other semantic BS. I don't know why there was no email from March 2006 to August 2007. I print out our backups of the missing email. I download detailed billing from Skype and Yahoo Voice showing Ngoc's phone number and the time and cost of each call. Finally and this is the one that really annoys me is the pictures. We submitted about two hundred photos. I went and printed 800 more photos from my flickr account. Each with a date stamp showing the date the photo was taken from the EXIF information. Over 15 different days. 2 my butt.

Head back to the embassy at 8 am. Get sassmouthed by the woman at the window. I demand to speak to a CO and an American. Finally she says if I come at 1pm I can talk to one of the COs.

1pm comes around. I am first in line. Get my ticket and wait. Talk to another local at the window. Won't let me do anything without giving him our Green sheet and proof. Gives me another ticket and says wait by window number 9. 3 Hours go by and it seems everyone with Fiancee cases has been called over a hour ago. Now we are into regular immigration and work type visas from what I can tell. Only locals show their faces in the windows. So when a window opens up I jumped in before they could call the next number. THEY FORGOT ABOUT ME. Then I had to give them my Fiancee's name again, case number etc. Wait some more please. She comes back finally about 40 minutes later. Sir this visa is being sent back to the US. AHHHHHHHHH!!!!! I said I want to talk to the supervisor now. Thinking that if I can talk to an American, he will use his brain and see, duh well we had some paperwork to get cleared up, but we would have it settled. No Dice. Middle aged guy wearing glasses.

I asked him what seemed to be the problem. He said they had a "feeling" our relationship was a sham. I was like what? I said we did everything you asked us. I wrote a detailed letter. I proved everything you said was an issue wasn't. Why do you "feel" our relationship is a sham, that is very nebulous. He said yeah it is. I asked him how can I prove to you that our relationship is genuine. He said I really don't see how you can. I said well look at the letter and the evidence. He said how do I know you did this, how do I know the evidence is real. You didn't sign your letter. I didn't because the man up front took it before I could ask questions. Could I sign it now? Do you have proof of who you say you are? Is my US Passport good enough? I'll hold off on sending this back to USCIS for a few weeks and maybe I'll look this stuff you provided over. I told him I am here until the 24th. Lets get this taken care of. I can come back everyday if needed. No DON'T COME BACK (it wasn't a suggestion), I'll call your girlfriend if I change my mind.

So needless to say we are floored. I just got back a few hours ago. I've called my representative and am waiting to be called back. I don't know what else to do, all our plans were tossed away. Our deposit for wedding pictures lost. We can't make invitations, her wedding dress, my suit. My parents are having to change their vacations at work. This is messing up two familys. Nevermind me having to explain to her relatives why we aren't getting a visa.

Anyone have any suggestions?



I feel sad after I read your post... Sometimes things happen for a reason.. Whatever reason He has for both of you I wish it will be for the better.
2x2y2z
QUOTE(pasaitoh @ Jul 21 2008, 09:34 AM) *
Finally Good News!

Ngoc's visa has been approved after review by the chief CO! I don't really have any details outside of they changed their mind. But I really don't care either, just happy we finally got it!

Best 4 am phone call I ever got!



Congratulations! kicking.gif
pasaitoh
Just to update, Ngoc and I entered the US together yesterday! Going to get our marriage license today and getting married Saturday!
SusieK
QUOTE(pasaitoh @ Oct 6 2008, 10:50 AM) *
Just to update, Ngoc and I entered the US together yesterday! Going to get our marriage license today and getting married Saturday!



OMG i started with your post and kept saying to myself "WTF" and then said wow alot of post to weed thru and then came to this page - wow - what a fab ending and major congrats to you both - I MEAN A REALLY HUGE CONGRATS!

Cheers
estadia
QUOTE(pasaitoh @ Oct 6 2008, 06:50 AM) *
Just to update, Ngoc and I entered the US together yesterday! Going to get our marriage license today and getting married Saturday!






YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSs!!!!!!!!! big big congratulations kicking.gif kicking.gif kicking.gif kicking.gif kicking.gif kicking.gif kicking.gif kicking.gif
beejay
Congratulations!! Much happiness to the both of you smile.gif
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