QUOTE(k & o @ Jun 25 2008, 12:55 AM)

This is a thought that I've been pondering....
I am a travel addict. I m.u.s.t. fly to new places, internationally.
As a US citizen it is relatively easy to obtain tourist visas to countries that requires them.
However, my question is... as my fiance is Jordanian -- it is difficult for him to obtain a tourist visa to come here (believe me, we tried), and I'm sure it's the same for other countries. I just wonder, once we marry, he has AP, etc etc... would that change for him somehow? I would want him to be able to travel easily along with me....
The reason it is hard for him to get a tourist visa to come to the US is because they know he is engaged to a US citizen and they don't want him here until all of the proper paperwork has been filed and approved. You know the government...they have to make sure he is all registered for tax reasons really. And if he came over before the paperwork was done you two could get married and he would not have to return...and they just could not have that without their blessing first......
I know we come from a free country but going through this process has made me feel like a prisoner...even though I can travel my husband cannot come and even visit me fora week with the promise to return...just because we are married. It makes no sense at all. It has been killing us to be apart for so long.....in a week it will be 4 months since we have seen each other. And because I have a real job and home to support...I can't just take off whenever to go and see him. By the time he gets here, which I estimate will be sometime in August or early September we will have been married almost a year and out of that year only spent 7 weeks together...due to the US government and their quirky immigration rules and delays. I understand about keeping the country safe, etc...but really...almost a year???????
Anyway...sorry to get off topic...but its sort of related...like my husband is not allowed here....same for your fiance....because of your relationship. The US embassy is very hard on anyone that wants to come here for anything other than like a 2 week vacation and if you are engaged or married to a US citizen, forget it. You will not be allowed to enter the country until you jump through all the hoops. My brother in law wants to come here to study english for about 20 weeks and he cannot get a visa approved because he doesn't have some kind of tie in Jordan...he is young...no wife, doesn't own a house, no business...he has a job but that doesn't count. You know what they told him...they told him to get married...in Jordan to a Jordanian woman and reapply and they will approve his visa....the very thing they preach that they don't want people to do here...get married for purposes of entering a country and they tell him to do that!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! So he can leave his wife and come here for extended time?? Plus, he doesn't have anyone there in mind he wants to marry. Its very sad. Anyway, I hope that helps you understand a little more about the US embassy in Jordan and the strange rules they put on people that want to visit the US. You have to have strong ties in Jordan and it cannot be family or a job. It has to be significant ties. It really irks me, to be honest.
I cannot comment on the other embassies in Jordan, i.e., Canada, etc. but I would bet that they are not nearly as difficult as US. The whole US visa policies are twisted and tear families apart for no good reason. Maybe someone can give you advice on traveling from Jordan to other countries...and what the rules are on travel from the US with a green card (once you are married). I could be wrong but I believe you have the right to travel in and out of the country as you please, just like a US citizen.
Deb