QUOTE(haythamandfati @ Jun 27 2008, 06:39 PM)

thank you olivia for everything u said
and i want to be more specified
i am married since 3rd march 2008
shes with me in egypt 2nd february 2008 ( one month to finish the papers)
i am fileing DCF petition
my wife spend 5 month of full residency with me and our 6 month will end in 3rd of august 08
(cause thats what the embassy want , to make me travel in the next 6 month from the petition time , she have to stay 6 month full residency with me )
- my wife stop her work there for a year ( so she dont have employer )
- she left her rental house (she dont have an address there )
- she dont have papers to proof taxis but she paid all to december 07 ( 1 month before she came here )
- she dont have paper who proof that shes LPN nurse
- she dont have family in usa (most of them dead and the rest are long time away from her ) so no one can support me
- she claim a good mony like 1000$ every 2 weeks when she work there ,and i have money in my account like 10.000$
..... i donno what i can do with the affidavit of support (its the only paper i miss now ) and how i can be away from it
i think about asking for non immigrant visa K3 so i will be away from having a sponsor.
i really donno what i can do

i dont sleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeep
1- can i support myself ( im a lawyer in Egypt ) and i have bank account, or do u think we both can field that affidavit cause i am a spouse
2- are you sure that i can chose which kind of visa i want (k-3 or Cr-1) cause i think k-3 dont need support
3- do u think its better for me to make her field the 130 petition with me in the embassy and she travel back to the u.s have a house and a job and then she can support me . or i need her again to be with me after the petition ?
4- whats the problem if i go ask for a tourist visa and then do the rest from there? cause u just said NO (explain pls)
i donno what to say but i really ask a lot
but i really appreciate every moment u spend repling me and help ur friend..1000 shokr
If you're married on March 3, 2008 then Sept 3, 2008 would be your six months married and living in Egypt together. It is only after you are married and living together in Egypt for six months that you may go to the Embassy and apply for DCF according to what I have read and my understanding. The affidavit of support will still need to be filled out by your wife and if she does not meet the minimum poverty requirement then you will need to fill out a co-sponser form and you may also file a joint sponser form sir. If she is an LPN she can get a copy of her license from her last place of employment or from the source of licenses or use her graduation certificate. The CO is not so much concerned about how much you have in the bank where you are as much as your employabilty in the US and what your plans are while here. ALL VISA REQUIRE SUPPORT. Whoever signs the sponser, co-sponer, or joint sponser is legally charged with supporting you while here. I do not believe you can joint sponser yourself.
You will need to pick which visa you are applying for before shipping off paperwork because once you are locked into that process the switching visas changes the fees and wait periods no only for you but for a lot of people in this process. If you apply for a K3 but are asked do you want a K3 or a CR-1 in the interview and you say CR-1 then expect them to say it will be an additional wait get in line buddy and you get put into AP again with security checks, and name clearances, and increased up front fees to start the change and you can start the change before the fees are paid. Get it?
Depending on what you petition for will make the choice on which direction you go with it. If you're doing the DCF and you don't have a sponser and she needs to get one and the only way she can do that is by going back to the US and finding someone then you have to file something else. If you file the CR-1 you pay the fees up front then you have a longer wait apart about 10 months till visa in hand and during that period she can wait for you on the otherside and you can come in on a two year visa and without applying for AOS and you can work right away. If you file the K3 you pay the fees later in the AOS which is an additional $1010 currently. And until AOS is complete you can't work legally and AOS can take 3-5 months while you're here. At least you are on her soil and she can be employable again and picking up the support until the approval.
Last information I have for you is that the percentages of the American Embassy in Cario issueing a vistors visa or a tourist visa isn't worth the money you will spend to apply for the chance. They are alotted so many tourist and visitor visas per a period to distribute at any one time to Egyptians. The selection is random and they average turning 150 away before awarding one person. The fee for a vistor/tourist visa to the US used to $100 but I believe it's raised. Also applying for the K3, CR-1 before applying for the visitor and tourist visa is nearly a dead no. The immigration department sends red flags right away.
Another automatic no to the tourist visa/visitors visa is if you apply and you do not have a letter from the military supporting it.
But if you do happen to go for the tourist visa/visitor visa and you are awarded it please come back and submit how you did it!!!
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Ok now my turn to ask you a question:
You're a lawyer in Cairo, Egypt? Is there such thing as an addendum to a marriage contract done at the ministray of marriage?