QUOTE(pilot @ Jun 26 2008, 10:48 PM)

I just got my first RFE in this whole immigration drama and I have to say that I hit me hard! I know I shouldn't sweat it, since I haven't even spoken to USCIS (I got the letter an hour ago and USCIS is closed right now) but I just don't know what they could possibly want! I sent our mortgage agreement, taxes for the past 3 years, medical insurance, house insurance, cars' insurance, bank statements etc... All joint. Aren't these the most important documents they are looking for? And that's not "sufficient enough"? What is then? That's ridiculous. We've been happily married for 3 years... What a beautiful gift for our 3rd wedding anniversary (on Monday). What do you think I should send? Pictures? All this stuff all over again? I just don't get it....

Can somebody please help?
Wow, sorry dude, you seem to have sent in similar stuff to me (in fact we don't even have a mortgage, we rent, and I got a letter from our landlord saying that I live there because we didn't want to get a new lease, ie increase in rent).
Did you send in any joint bills (or bills of any sort even if you one name on them), eg phone, cable, electricity, gas etc? Does your letter specifically state financial evidence or other things as well? Did you, for example, send in any affidavits or photos? Car titles?
I just sent my package in a few days ago, and I'm also nervously waiting to see what happens. We didn't have any joint liabilities (ie in both names) for example, except things like car insurance. My wife has a couple of student loans and about 3 credit cards (almost 2 now!) from before our relationship so there was no way I was going to have us signing up for anything else until those have sufficiently been paid off. I don't believe in borrowing money unless absolutely necessary so we haven't taken out any sort of loans.
Being that I'm not currently in your situation (and hopefully I can skip the stress of an RFE), its probably easy for me to say, just relax, take a deep breath and think it over for a couple of days. I'm sure you and some others on this board will generate some ideas, and this'll just be a little annoyance. The process seems to be completely random, and unfortunately we all suffer a little.