our family friend married some one. He got coditional green card couple months ago. She noticed that husband is a completely changed person, after he got his conditional green card. She is thinking he married her for green card. She is bitter. She wants to punish him. What she can Do Now.

they key word is "conditional". he needs her to make it permanent after 2 years.

It isn't her position to punish him. It is her right to make the government aware if she has reason to believe and proof to show that his intentions upon entering marriage with her were not genuine.

Put some jalapenos in his food - or habaneros - yikes!
No, she can't do anything to punish him. But he will still need to get conditions removed on his own (not very easy but not too hard to do). She should be thankful that it didn't go on for years, get divorced and move on with her life. Being bitter is only going to eat her insides. Good Luck

Could be a one-sided story. Maybe she has been mistreating him all this time and he is only showing her who's the boss. They should talk about this. Plus she needs to understand and realise that he is her husband and that they are ought to talk things over instead of turning to divorce. Especially if they both are muslims then they should consider other options besides a divorce.

oh gosh,

spend the night in the bathroom with a painful behind

I don't think anyone should do anything out of spite or to punish somebody else. Karma will take care of everything, or at least that's what I believe.

If she really thinks that he married her for his green card she can divorce him now and try to gather as much evidence as she can to prove that he did this on purpose. Otherwise, he will more than likely be able to remove conditions on his own if he can prove he married her for love, which may not be the case.

Diana

Thats what happens when you fix up a Catholic girl Mike , with a Pakistani Muslim. Irish paki stand off!!! habneros jajaja have to put it in the curry every night, it makes no difference, hurts me more OUCH!!!

Is not point punishing to him, Karma will take care of him, he can remove conditions on his own.....Just move on with your life

It isn't her position, you are right. But, if I were in that situation, I'd sure as hell look for every opportunity to do just that!

What is he doing that makes her think he is not in it for love?

Tell Wifey not to do any thing. As stated earlier, the conditional green card is only good for two years. What goes on in the dark will come out in the light. If he is truly using her for immigration purposes, it will be revealed in due time.

Ask the wife to keep immigration out of the equation just for a minute or two.

Relationships go through certain phases. People change. Sometimes you never know the person until you're married and the honeymoon stage is over.

If they were a regular couple, would she put up with the perceived changes in her husband's personality? Would she put more effort on keeping the marriage and adjusting her expectations instead of being bitter and thinking of ways to punish him?

As important as immigration to our lives, let's not allow it to run our lives more than necessary.