Did you meet thru the internet? Do you know what other networking sites they are on and who else they're talking to? Have you talked about networking sites? Try this site: link and put in their email address. You just might be surprised what comes up about your partner.

Good morning Olivia
its so awesome poll.
but thanks GOD we don't have that kinda stuff
we have my space together and we are members in another site together 2.
have a nice blessed sunday

my husband is not really into networking site actually the reason why he has some is because of me . Thanks for sharing that site

:|: PiNk :|:

-we share passwords to emails, YM, etc.
-we're the same.

We didn't meet on-line but we use the networking site www.orkut.com (that a lot of Brazilians use). We have one account for the both of us. My husband and I share passwords anyway.

I suppose this comes down to how much you trust your SO...I have no need to do a search on my husband, nor does he on me. I hate that some of you feel the need to search such things on your SO.

That's awesome 8 ppl r good.

Alex and I share all our passwords and know what sites we're both on - often one of us has introduced the other to them. If one of us is without internet access we'll keep the other informed if an important e-mail/message comes our way.

Nothing on that site is a surprise to me!

I'm on orkut too, but I don't use it to meet people, make friends or anything, I'm there so I can keep in touch with high school, college etc friends.
Charles doesn't have orkut, because it is pretty much for brazilians and he doesnt have brazilian friends. As for sharing the password, we only share for websites we use together, like photobucket, netflix, etc. Our e-mail is private.

I know which websites he goes to (well, most of it anyway, even the "bad ones"). Thanks for the link you gave, I checked my email addresses (it's a good tool to know what people can discover about yourself). I won't use it to check his email address. I don't feel the need to do that.

There wasn't a choice for my answer---He is not on any networking sites. We didn't meet on one, we met on AOL IM...he doesn't like myspace or any of those places, he thinks they are stupid. I now have a fake myspace to keep up with my sister and friend who moved away so they can see pics of Kavi easily, I don't add new people. Suj and I know each other's passwords for most things. Not bc of trust issues but because sometimes we have to access info from each other's stuff for bills, files, and etc.


I generally agree with that, but I think in some instances, like if the SO was on multiple sites to try to meet women, it could be good to know. Some people are finding out not cool stuff. And while I don't support people jumping to conclusions about their SO, some things are just too obvious and speak for themselves and are not acceptable.

We share email passwords and everything, but he's not on any networking sites anyway. He doesn't do much on the internet besides watch videos.

Alex and I do searches on each other...but not in a sneaky way. For example, I input his e-mail address into that site and then immediately messaged him the results, and then we had a short discussion about what we'd found (him: 'Oh! I'd signed up to that site and then I never used it!' etc.). I might tell him that I've been participating on an interesting thread on a forum, so that he can do a search to see what I've said. However, I don't do google searches with any ulterior motives.

yes, share passwords to networking sites (a bit beyond sharing on the email--we both keep email accounts locked-open), we're good.

The only reason hubby has myspace is because everybody else in his family has it. It's funny because of we all live within 1 hr of driving distance.

I am too lazy to do the upkeep (updating pictures, etc). I communicate with emails with my friends in Indonesia & I talked to my immediate family by phone eat least twice a week.

We're both have myspace and facebook accounts, no secrets, but saying that, we don't share passwords to our accounts. Why would we need to?

I thought the link would be a hoot to look both of us up, but it's not accurate since there was no information with any of the email addresses we use.

I searched on myself and my husband. No surprises. I knew there wouldn't be.

We share passwords and check things for the other when one of us is not available.

Try back in a little while...it starts searching once you put in the info and takes a little while to pick up the info.

The site is kind of scary because of how they find the info, I mean I am not sure but I think it might have to do with hacking.

I looked up ours, at first was nothing, but then it said to check back later. I did and then my stuff did show up---an old Hi5 account I never used was on the list. I forgot about hi5 so I went and deleted that. I only had 2 friends on it, one was the person who invited me but we never talked on it haha she had moved away to college.

Anyone find that they had already been searched? Weird.

gotcha... I tried it again and there was nothing interesting... just the facebook and myspace for him and facebook, myspace and amazon wishlist for me... pfft! LOL

interesting, that link showed I had a hi5 I guess my brother sent me an invitation and I signed up and totally forgot about it, cuz he was my friend list.

We both have facebook acocunts. Actually, I signed him up for facebook so that he could get to know some of my friends.

I used to have Myspace but I closed that account. And he has my e-mail password because I was supposed to send him something, I was too lazy and told him to get into my account. My password for everything is the same so once he has one, he has them all

We don't check up on each other or anything. Our lives are not that exciting.

We met through internet, yes, but on an online game, not a dating site.

I know all sites he goes to and people he talks to. He also knows the same about me. We talked a lot about networking sites - he got Facebook because of me, I got Myspace because of him. I go to a lot of forums (addicted?) and he knows about that. I also visit one forum's chatroom very often and Vent server (voice chatroom) - he's not too happy with that but he knows.

His e-mail adress showed only MySpace, and my e-mail address didn't show anything yet but I expect it to be FULL of results soon. I'm online a lot and I signed up on a lot of things (From ... Ebay to Twitter) so the site should find a nice pile of links.


We know each other's passwords for everything except e-mail accounts.

We don't use orkut to meet new people here. I like it because I can keep in touch with my friends and students from Brazil, and my husband can remain in contact with his friends/family.

I looked up myself and my SO just out of curiosity of what the thing could find. It doesn't find half of the forums I know we're both part of. We both share most of our passwords, there's only a couple financial ones I'll keep private until our marriage is official. Otherwise there's no secrets. We know each others' friends and have logged onto each others' various accounts often already.

Secrets, imo, aren't indicative of a healthy relationship.

P hates social networking sites, ever since he had to do a huge paper on them for grad school
We share an email address and we have our own domain with email addresses. We already have a joint bank account so ofc password for that.

I have no reason to do a search on him. I know he runs a forum for Dark Age of Camelot, but he rarely posts there and I wouldn't care if he did.

I wouldn't be marrying him if I didn't trust him....