QUOTE(LynnandAhmed @ May 27 2008, 05:18 AM)

I swear that I am really happy for people that get their visa in less than 2 weeks...........it's awesome..........
but I am starting to think that if I were pregnant or had a baby, then maybe
we would have gotten the visa by now.
I know that every day is one day closer, it's just REALLY depressing to see people get their visas............
Sometimes I think it's better if I don't come on here...........
It almost makes me not want to post when I do get my visa in case some people have been waiting for over a year.
I feel guilty if I am happy when others are suffering.
It's like if you find out that the chemo killed your cancer but with someone else, the chemo hasn't worked.
How can you be happy, when you know someone else is suffering.
Sorry if I sound glum, but it's just how I am feeling now.
I had to put my cat to sleep yesterday and bury him. It was really emotionally heartbreaking, especially when I still had to be at work.
Then, the email from the Embassy is the same old thing for the last 4 months...........and I am thinking what is it
doing in Cairo? Sitting on a desk now for over 3 weeks since DOS cleared it? It's almost been a year now since we started this whole process.
I am sad.
i understand ur feelings and we pray for you . each case is different and yes to have a baby together it could make it faster but there are alot got thier visa fast without has baby together so each case is different
keep strong and have faith and inshaAllah your day is coming soon