Some questions regarding taking on (or not) children that aren't your own when getting involved with your SO.
Feel free to discuss.
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He has four children, ages 8 to 14...I have one, 11. We will need to find a bigger place to live!
My wife has three but all grown ups, and two grandchildren -one got born after I arrived here.
He has a 20 yr old daughter who was back in the States by the time we started living together, and a 16 yr old boy who lived with him. I also have 2 teenagers...they all became great pals, which was cool.
we are now left with my 10 yr old.....I know it was something he thought seriously about before getting involved with me as he was about to retire and move to some 3rd world country
I am really pleased he gave it alot of thought 
He also has a grandchild born last year.....hehehehehe
we are now left with my 10 yr old.....I know it was something he thought seriously about before getting involved with me as he was about to retire and move to some 3rd world country
I am really pleased he gave it alot of thought He also has a grandchild born last year.....hehehehehe
He has 3 - 2 boys 27 & 24 - girl of 20
I get on fine with them all, but they all live away from home.
I get on fine with them all, but they all live away from home.
QUOTE(sukie175 @ May 11 2006, 07:30 PM) 
He has 3 - 2 boys 27 & 24 - girl of 20
I get on fine with them all, but they all live away from home.
Hahaha, yeh, imagine that would help.
No, No
Can not respond to the poll since there is no option I can pick for Q3.
Can not respond to the poll since there is no option I can pick for Q3.
well obviously crash has jr from his previous marriage... so here i am at age 38 becoming an instant mom to a 14 year old boy... and oooh no stretch marks....
seriously, as i've gotten older i realized i would probably meet a man who had kids of his own already. it never occurred to me that he may actually have full custody. however, with crash it didnt matter at all. yea i thought about it for about 5 minutes. but when i realized how much in love with crash i was the fact that he was custodial parent didnt matter. and now i love jr as if he were my own...
seriously, as i've gotten older i realized i would probably meet a man who had kids of his own already. it never occurred to me that he may actually have full custody. however, with crash it didnt matter at all. yea i thought about it for about 5 minutes. but when i realized how much in love with crash i was the fact that he was custodial parent didnt matter. and now i love jr as if he were my own...
first Q- no
second Q- hard to say, I would have preferred not
so couldn't answer 3rd Q
second Q- hard to say, I would have preferred not
so couldn't answer 3rd Q
QUOTE(Agent Smith @ May 15 2006, 10:09 AM)
No, No
Can not respond to the poll since there is no option I can pick for Q3.
QUOTE(stina&suj @ May 15 2006, 02:29 PM)
first Q- no
second Q- hard to say, I would have preferred not
so couldn't answer 3rd Q
Dittos
no no and put in my age bracket wehn we met just to answer the poll.
Daniel
Daniel
we dont have kids yet..
He has an 18 yr old daughter and 15 yr old son. I have 3 boys, 12, 10 and 10(twins).
His lovely brother told him he was making a mistake signing up to raise my kids when his are almost out of the house. I guess he did not know how to say congrats. I feel this is a good time to make use of the word chopf##k.
His lovely brother told him he was making a mistake signing up to raise my kids when his are almost out of the house. I guess he did not know how to say congrats. I feel this is a good time to make use of the word chopf##k.
QUOTE(Frances @ May 15 2006, 02:43 PM)
QUOTE(Agent Smith @ May 15 2006, 10:09 AM)
No, No
Can not respond to the poll since there is no option I can pick for Q3.
QUOTE(stina&suj @ May 15 2006, 02:29 PM)
first Q- no
second Q- hard to say, I would have preferred not
so couldn't answer 3rd Q
Dittos
Yep
Luz has a wonderful 15yo boy named Robin. We are talking about me adopting him.
Been there, done that, would not do it again. This time, I wanted someone who's body hadn't already been through the rigors of childbirth, with someone elses child.
QUOTE(roi_aggie @ May 22 2006, 06:34 PM)
Been there, done that, would not do it again. This time, I wanted someone who's body hadn't already been through the rigors of childbirth, with someone elses child.
no
post boosting
He has no previous kids. If he did I wouldn't mind at all. It'd just make things harder financially.
It'd just make things harder financially.
QUOTE(Agent Smith @ May 15 2006, 11:09 AM)
No, No
Can not respond to the poll since there is no option I can pick for Q3.
I hate it when this happens!
I would have not get involved with a man that have kids. It's a no go, period.
QUOTE(roi_aggie @ May 22 2006, 08:34 PM)
Been there, done that, would not do it again. This time, I wanted someone who's body hadn't already been through the rigors of childbirth, with someone elses child.
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