My whole family has served in the military, including me. You are right wahrania, it is about people in the military, just doing what we are sent to do. I served in the Army Special Forces, than I married a naval officer, so I just lived the whole military life for a long long time. I remember my ex-husband calling me from Kuwait, they flew missions over Kuwait and Iraq, and never in a million years would I think I would marry an Arab. Most of the people I met in the military were awesome; it is like anywhere you have your good with your bad. I spent many many years alone raising my daughter, while her father was somewhere doing something, and it was always in some foreign land, the longest time he was gone was over a year. In that year I saw him for a week. So being alone is something I am all too familiar with, waiting is the name of the game married to a navy man. I do say while I was in the Army there were some of the brightest and intelligent people I have ever met. Do I trust the government, I used to, not anymore, and I know a lot of vets that feel the same way, but I will always support my fellow soldiers, I know what it takes to do that job, and the sacrifice to the family. I just want my brothers and sisters out of Iraq, let’s bring them home.

MEMORIAL DAY, 2008
FOR OUR TROOPS (both past and present, but particularly in Iraq and Afghanistan at present)
Though I don't know your name
And I have never seen your face
I shed tears for you.
Though my memories don't contain a time
We shared together
I miss you.
Though we are not related
You are in my thoughts.
When I'm eating, or taking a shower, or doing housework,
I think of you, knowing how much you wish you could be at home,
Your stomach full, doing mundane chores such as cleaning your house,
Clean from a fresh shower.
Though you are at terrible risk, and perhaps may not survive,
You are NEVER ALONE, and will always be alive
If only in our spirits, hopes and memories, our dreams for your future.
There are MILLIONS of people praying for you tonight
And throughout the day.
Praying for your safely and return as a whole person
In mind, body and spirit.
We are crying because we know. We know you are scared, and lonely.
And that you'd give anything to see your family, to hug you mother, father.
Your child, sister, brother, aunt, uncle.
To be showered with love and comfort,
Instead of sand and shrapnel.
We long for you too, with an ache so desperate as to make us insane.
To touch your face, see your smile; share your laughter and your tears.
We love you so much soldiers, you cannot know. You cannot fathom the swelling of pride in our chest as we think of you.
Of your courage and your sacrifice, the hope that you can come home soon.
And those that have returned, we have not forgotten you; you are in our prayers,
That you may recover from your experience and be healed.
No matter what anyone says, not matter the reason you are there,
You are a UNITED STATES SOLDIER, and you make us PROUD!!
Every day for that beautiful flag, for our great fortune to be Americans.
There are no politics, no scandals, no mistakes, NOTHING, which can diminish the sentiment we have for you.
And even as democracy permits free speech, as it should, which some may use to make judgments or cast aspersions,
Remember always, we know you'd rather be on the couch debating it with us than spending your days trying just to stay alive.
Let no "freedom of speech' EVER make you doubt the American people's faith in and love for you.
We are PROUD!
I've never met you, but I want you to know that I love you.
I'm praying for you.
I honor you.
I'm waiting for your return.
On this Memorial Day, 2008, and every day,
Please know that you are being thought of.
WE MISS YOU.
GOD BLESS YOU and keep you until the day we can celebrate face to face.