Hello everyone. About 6 months ago I had an approved I-129F waiting at the embassy in Kiev getting ready to schedule my fiancee's interview. About that time, she did some crazy things, like telling me a few lies and taking some money from me thinking she had some wonderful opportunity to establish herself in the business world in Ukraine. She was 22 yrs old then with a young boy. I was devastated, obviously. After waiting 3 months, I had to notify the embassy that I needed to cancel my K1 visa application. They asked me to write a letter why, the circumstances, etc., which I did. They then emailed me that based upon my letter, the K1 process was being canceled and returned to USCIS. I then received a letter from USCIS a couple weeks ago that they received my ap back from the State Dept. for review.
I assume there is some kind of formal cancellation of the I-129F petition at USCIS since it was sent back to them from the embassy. Is that correct from anyones experience or knowledge? What are the steps that occur in doing this so I show a clean slate if I apply again with another woman in the future?
And here is a crazy scenario/question...since all this happened, my former fiancee has realized she made some tremendous errors in judgment and has been trying extremely hard for me to give her a second chance. I have seen her and while it is tempting at times to at least consider, I don't know if it is even possible anymore. Has anyone here ever filed a K1, canceled it at the embassy level for bad behavior of the fiancee, and then tried to get the K1 again for the same person? Or contacted USCIS saying circumstances changed and you want to use the approved application? I know it all sound crazy, but if anyone has any experience doing this or has heard of someone doing this, I would really appreciate the feedback on what happened, what is or is not possible, etc. I should have tried to get an extension or something at the time, but at the time, I truly thought she would be history and I would never talk to her again. Crazy how things in life happen. Thanks for all your feedback.
