QUOTE(flavaofsummer @ May 24 2008, 11:20 PM)

maybe this is a dumb question but does immigration in some cases look at the situation im in meaning since i traveled alot to be with him can they hold that against me? this is just an opinion from urside cuz no one can be correct about this answer, im afraid they will say no to me since i traveled alot over seas but the only reason i did it is cus of my husband to see his kids my parents r here so i didnt abadon america i live out of a suitcase there and here i have everything to live with except their dad and my husband,,hmmm
The key benefit to some of us for US citizenship is to obtain a US passport in the event that the immigrants former country won't issue it. And why should they if you are a permanent resident of a different county? This no US passport deal for permanent residents of the US I view as an awkward to say the least rule as it is not easy nor convenient to maintain that foreign passport of a foreign country if you are not there.
A key factor of US citizenship is taking that oath so why not a similar oath for a permanent resident? Doesn't permanent resident mean just that, permanent resident. Or why even a permanent resident first, wasn't this way in our history, as I said before from the time my grandparents came here, took six weeks to become a US citizen. Today with delays in getting your conditional permanent resident card even with the marriage three year wait, and additional delays after that three year wait for processing the N-400, can take over five-six years. And immigrants do like to visit with there families now and then. Families can't come here due to our restrictions and extreme difficulty in getting a visa, but we can visit those countries without a visa from them, provided the immigrant here has some kind of passport. But that has to be from a foreign source, and how can one be allegiant to the USA when force by our crazy laws to also be allegiant to a foreign country?
Wonder if the rule writers considered this.
In the case of my step daughter, she hasn't seen her older brother in over four years now, while we had full documentation from the courts of her country where her biological father relinquished all rights to her that was perfectly acceptable to our USCIS. Her country where that document originated from was not recognized even by here own country, they insisted we get a notarized statement with an apostile from her biological father to give his permission before they would issue her a new passport. While a notarized statement here is signing the document in front of a notary free at any bank, there it is a very expensive process with a thousand buck pricetag. That is okay, but her biological father used this opportunity to blackmail her and wanted another 10,000 bucks to sign it. Even if I did agree, was no way to do this legally, ha, you send me the ten thousand and trust me kind of thing, I am not exactly stupid. So she had to wait until she was 18 where she didn't need his signature. Then other problems, you are not even living in this country when we did apply.
So I had to play politics, brought along the deeds of my wife's property, said we are just staying in the USA to make a lot of money then plan on returning, but this is the position my country put me in because they will not issue a US passport to a permanent resident.
What if find really ironic about this is that the DHS has an inch and a half thick pile of documentation on my wife, daughter, and me copied on both sides, they have their photos and fingerprints they took themselves, so they know they are here and took all their sweet time to verify these many documents, but yet are here on a very restricted basis. This is in contrast to the some odd 20 million illegals that are here they don't even know about. So why can't they issue some kind of passport? This puts all of us between a rock and a hard place.
flavaofsummer, if you are coming here for help and not just to complain, many some board members can help you, if they fully understood your situation. I have no idea if it's you or your husband that is the US citizen, why he is overseas, why you can only spend a couple of months so you can see him, nor the status of you and your husband. Could also suggest avoiding that internet shorthand that maybe just me can't fully understand.
But can only say that our laws are man made and perhaps not the best, as a US citizen, the procedure is to contact your senator or congressman and express the hardships these laws are causing you. One thing you will learn very quickly is that our congressman are not even familiar with the laws created by government agencies, in some cases so ridiculous, following the law of one agency breaks the law of another. Our Senator Fiengold was the only senator to vote against the APA, and his reason was, he was the only one that read it, which let me to read it, I couldn't believe what I read, but yet it is the law. Agencies were first created in this country to give our politicians technical advice on complicated matters, in 1972, many new ones were created with the power to make laws. No, I am not going to leave my country, but this is one big hell of a mess.