QUOTE(motu @ May 22 2008, 02:30 PM)

What you should do is talk to relatives and friends and boss at work or colleagues - those who know you should be willing to help you as long as you can convince them that the sponsored party will not really need the financial need that they are attesting to, because you will be able to take care of your fiance/wife sufficiently. Those who don't know you (like us on VJ) and do not have any idea of what your capabilities are - should not be your source for co-sponsorship - its very disturbing to me at the very least. However, if you were my neighbor that would be entirely different. Good Luck
Hey,
I do agree that visajourney may not be the best place to find a co-sponsor, as everyone on here is well aware of the responsibility that goes along with being a co-sponsor. Not saying that you would EVER become a public charge, but if you were to , then the person who is your co-sponsor would be financially responsible for you.
I do not, however, agree that it is "disturbing" that you asked this, as I understand you guys are getting desperate and desperation calls for desperate measures, however I just don't think VJ is the best place to ask. Mainly because no one can vouch for you on here, and no one knows you, and I just don't see people being willing to co-sponsor a person they don't know. Also, not sure if you'd want a random person to co-sponsor you anyways, as things could turn ugly if something were to happen.
Of course I wish you the best of luck and I really do hope you are able to find a co-sponsor.
Once again, good luck and best wishes.