QUOTE(reehon @ May 13 2008, 09:28 AM)

QUOTE(Paris Heart @ May 13 2008, 10:22 AM)

QUOTE( @ May 13 2008, 07:56 AM)

Dont worry, as the months go by your hope will turn to angry and then you will just become a full time waiting machine, it is very frustrating indeed. So many people at Vermont are waiting the full 6 months and then some. I hit the 180 mark in 6 more days. Try not to focus so much on this process, I know its hard but do your best. It has comsumed my life at this point, I check USCIS 6 times a day at the very least and I stay glued to these forums, its amazing I still have a job really. At some point some one has to say something to Vermont, CSC is in Jan and Feb yet Vermont is still in Aug and Sep. I can only imagine that who ever runs USCIS will start to question things soon. I mean if you pay people its only right that they do some work, well atleast thats how I thought it worked. Strange that the people at VSC get paid but dont produce any work.
000. this process has turned me into a impatient , bitter person. these people have no ideas of what we are going thru, our marrige consists on a web camera, emails, and texts. How can a marriage survive??. I thank God my husband so much patience with me, for many times I have flown off my broom stick at him, he know's that Im just gone mentally, with worry about if petiton does not get passed by mid July, and I worry about maybe having to give up my country here and go to Algeria, but right now, feels like my country has abadoned me with this processing or I should say Non processing of family petitions. What is the hell is VSC doing over there with the CR-1 and K3's.????
Continue to pray, its all we got now, and sometimes I feel like God has forgotten my email address.
Paris Heart
Paris....I understand your pain and i'm in the same boat as u are. My family tells me all the time that i have no patient and i'm very irriatable. I have changed so much and all i do is argue for no reason. I hate this country now, forget about USCIS. I'm planning to go back in next 5 years. It's a recession right now and noone will understand out pain other than us. I can't even give you courage or hope coz i have lost it and don't want to do anything anymore.
I dont hate my country!!!!!!!!!!!!, and I never want to leave my country, what ticks me off is, we file legally to bring our loved ones here, and all we do is wait and wait, while I-129 work visas are expided and they come over bring their whole family over here from kids to 6th cousin removed, and they do not have to go thru the same process and heartache as we do. And I know that for a fact, for Im a customs broker and see these entry pile across my desk day after day, while I sit and pray to God something will happen with the petition, missing my husband more and more each day, deciding what I should cut from grocery list, or what bill I can put off to pay just to survive this process, and keep 2 hoseholds running.
Calling VSC and sounding like a child begging for a toy, and all I get is some smart *** who goes home everyday to his or her wife and their family and tells me to just wait. What ever happened to taking care of Americans first in our own country, bring their families together. Even the foreign national ficances' are treated and processed faster then us family petitioners. Thats when I feel my country has forgotten us, forgotten the families.
Ive said enough, but no one can ever say I hate my country , if I hated my country I would of left it years ago.
My heart may be in Paris with my husband, but my roots, & home is here in the USA.
Paris Heart