QUOTE(Nagishkaw @ May 12 2008, 12:41 PM)

Responding to the horn dog or telling your husband will only perpetuate the drama.
QUOTE(moody @ May 12 2008, 02:58 PM)

They are not the same person and several ppl here know that very well.
How is it acceptable to exhibit nasty behavior and name calling towards ta me and peezey yet no one else here likes it directed towards themselves?
First off, ta me was not saying anything nasty, negative or even remotely name calling towards GG. She was expressing that the thread was unnecessary. She was commenting about the author of the "love letter", not GG.
Everyone has different personalities, likes, dislikes, writing styles, intelligence, tolerance, etc. Not everything has to be kumbaya over a campfire. Somethings are utterly ridiculous and no one should have to be silenced or ridiculed because they speak up about it.
Maybe yes, maybe no, but I can't say that I can remember a time when either of them have been particularly supportive, but rather critical of several. You pretty much get what you give.
For the OP, I can see why you don't want to tell your hubby about this, but perhaps you should look at it this way. If this had happened to him with one of your friends would you want to know? Also, what if you don't tell him but he finds out later? Would he be upset that you didn't confide in him?
This is really a personal decision, and both my husband and I have had similar issues. We both agree to tell each other about it. Not that it served any purpose because both him and I can handle ourselves, but it is nice to know that we have this kind of openess and honesty between us.
As far as that little turd, well lets just say he doesn't deserve any response from you.