I notice a lot of you have time lines of how long everything took. I have been looking on ins websites for at processing dates and I am getting nervous. I am hoping you guys can give me a bit of hope and encouragement.
I met Mark (from the UK) in 2004 online, after over a year of talking online he called me for the first time in June '06. We met in person for the first time in September '06 and had such a good time he was back again at the end of October. In March '07 Mark flew back and we took the whole family (my four kids from a previous marriage, Mark and me), and went to Disneyland and SeaWorld. Mark was back at the end of August and we all went camping on our first "family camping trip", then we had an early Christmas the second week of December when Mark flew out again and we went to a tree farm together to pick out Christmas trees.
Because Fall is my favorite season we set a wedding date for October 15, 2008, we filed our paperwork and sent off the money for processing in Feb. '08. We were sure by the time the wedding came around everything would have gone through. We got back a paper in the mail (basically a receipt) that gave us a web page to look up processing times. According to the site, in April they were working on K1 Visas from October '07. This would be about a 7month back log if I am thinking correctly. If that is the case then that means we might not get any kind of response or reply until September. We have already booked the place for the wedding ceremony and the honeymoon, we sent the invites out in April, and we have guests who are flying in from all around the globe, (Germany, UK, Belgium, other side of the USA) just to see us and be with us at the wedding. We have invested about $7000 so far in the wedding alone. So what happens now? I don't want to have to start the whole process all over because we have gotten married. But it isn't just us who have invested money at this point either. Over half our guests have reserved hotels and airfare already. The pastor from our church has been great and is even doing our premarital counsellings with me in her office and him on speaker phone. I love him more than I have ever loved anyone and I want us to be able to get married and be together as soon as possible.
California is our processing place. Does anyone have any helpful or encouraging words, or even some facts on what to expect?
Thank you so much.
Rebecca
