QUOTE(Staashi @ May 12 2008, 08:14 AM)

We had both sworn/notarized affidavits and strong financial evidence. I believe that affidavits should come from people who TRULY know you. Ours were from my mother and sister, who are around us all the time.
I say that affidavits can't hurt you, only help further your case along. If you can provide them, provide them. If you can't, then don't. But remember this, your whole purpose to this application is to give them considerable evidence to decide if you two are in a bonafide relationship. You sure as hell better have plenty of info that represents that, and if you don't, be prepared for an RFE.
Good luck...with USCIS you're going to need it.

I agree with your assessment Staashi. Affidavits can't hurt, but I don't think they help much either in most cases. I guess it's kind of like filling your 4-banger Toyota Corolla with premium gas...nice, but probably not necessary. If you've had a baby together, are paying off a mortgage, and have your foreign spouse listed as a beneficiary on insurance, that's pretty damn solid.
I think USCIS would tend to give a closer look at relationships where there is considerable age difference between the spouses. In cases such as these, affidavits would certainly be helpful.