QUOTE(Kathryn41 @ May 5 2008, 05:25 PM)

You don't need a waiver, but you do need to file. Explain that you were expecting to receive notification of the need to file and did not realize until now that such instructions are not coming. Personally, I would not use a lawyer as that would delay filing even later than you are and may cause you more hardship in the long run. Download the I-751 form, get photocopies of all of your evidence, write your letter addressed to USCIS and sign it from the two of you, and get it into the mail asap. Make this your priority and try to get it into the mail tomorrow or the next day. Generally, from my understanding, you probably have a 60 day 'grace' period but not much more than that. Apologize profusely in your letter and ask them to accept the application even though it is late. Use a personal cheque for the filing fee as you will be able to see when it is cashed. Once it is cashed you can feel pretty comfortable that your application has been accepted. Good luck - and don't waste any more time - get that application in!
Thanks for the speedy response.
Since we just discovered all of this yesterday (Sunday), I do not have the evidence. Do you think I should file it without the evidence and then send the evidence in a couple of days once we get it all together (need affadavits).
My wife thinks we need to go to the San Antonio USCIS office but I am fearful of doing that.
I have completed the I-751 and can send a check tomorrow.
Do you have any hard evidence of a possible 60-day grace period? This is the first I have heard of such since I began searching the web yesterday.
I agree that telling them the truth that it was simply an oversight instead of concocting an excuse as my wife has suggested would be better.