QUOTE(Marlita @ May 5 2008, 06:14 PM)

QUOTE(Jack and Barbara @ May 5 2008, 02:26 PM)

Also be aware that if it is found out your SO is coming on a visitor visa when in fact you are engaged, your SO would likely face deportation proceedings. How likely is that happening is another question because USCIS considers coming to the U.S. for a tourist visa (or other non-K1 visa for that matter) with the intent to marry as fraud.
He won't face deportation if he is JUST visiting. There is no rule or law that says that you cannot visit a spouse or finace with a tourist visa. In actuality you could come to the US and get married, but in the end it may look suspect even though you weren't doing anything suspect. The issue with people from many non-European countries visiting the US is that you are guilty until proven innocent. If you look at the Canada, UK, France, Australia forums....you'll see and read people visiting the US, getting married, applying for visas while in the US...all day long. Its a huge unfairness, but what people have told you above about needing to show strong ties to JA for a visitor visa is very true.
That's not entirely true. If he is just visiting, then, no he would not face deportation unless something crazy like illegal things were going on.
However, if he specifically came to the US to marry her, using his visitors visa, there are circumstances that could arrise to cause deportation and banning. It is illegal to use a visitor's visa if the intent is to marry and stay. It is all about intent. Be very careful.