QUOTE(Norman and Dijani @ May 1 2008, 10:51 AM)

Hello,
My fiancee is concerned on how she will be treated when she arrives here in the US. She has traveled here before on a different type of visa and has been hassled on a few occasions. I tried to explain to her that customs and immigration is concerned with the fact that people are trying to come into the uS on temp visas and then will stay, but since she is coming here on a K-1 with the intention to get married and stay, this should make the situation pretty easy. Does anyone have an experience with this? How differently were you treated when coming in on your K-1 then you were on say a tourist or student visa?
I think it really varies. It depends on which airport, which officer, and also which country the person is from. I don't know if many people realize that the country really does matter. I've had people tell me they don't believe that, but they were from places that are more acceptable to the American public.
My husband didn't come over on a tourist visa, but I just wanted to let you hear a different story. He was grilled for quite some time once he got here, and then they took me in and the woman said some very rude things to me. She also told me I didn't have to marry him - I could send him home and wouldn't get in any trouble. She said horrible things about Moroccans. A friend of mine married a woman from Brazil, and he told me that she's been made to cry three different times in the airport.
I'm not telling you this to scare you two, just to let you be prepared. You'd really be better off asking people from her country who are already here. Preferably ones who came through the same airport. I wish I knew what we would be up against. I wouldn't have done anything differently, just wouldn't have been in such shock that first day he got here.
I wish you two the best of luck!