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sgr

Apr 25 2008, 04:09 PM

Here is my thoughts for you guys to keep up less stress and long delay....while going through immigration process

1.Check your e -mail everyday ....with big smile on you face

(hoping that you may have missed cris mail)

2.Check your USCIS case status once bi weekly....with this face

...b/c it never changes usually ..if you check it everyday or call them ...may cause more delay since they record how many times you called or visited ...etc ...which leads you these faces >>>>>>

...more and more frustration

3.Read more giggles everyday ...from VJ..

(ex : sarah and loto are good ones ..lol) and go to bed at night by dreaming your loved ones

Finally donot talk or discuss about ..immgration process with your loved spouses ...when you call them unless there is good news .....b/c IF YOU DO it may lead to MOOD SWINGS DISORDER ...LOL

AllRightsReserved

Apr 25 2008, 04:28 PM

Therapeutic!

Paris Heart

Apr 25 2008, 04:39 PM

QUOTE(sgr @ Apr 25 2008, 04:09 PM)

Here is my thoughts for you guys to keep up less stress and long delay....while going through immigration process

1.Check your e -mail everyday ....with big smile on you face

(hoping that you may have missed cris mail)

2.Check your USCIS case status once bi weekly....with this face

...b/c it never changes usually ..if you check it everyday or call them ...may cause more delay since they record how many times you called or visited ...etc ...which leads you these faces >>>>>>

...more and more frustration

3.Read more giggles everyday ...from VJ..

(ex : sarah and loto are good ones ..lol) and go to bed at night by dreaming your loved ones

Finally donot talk or discuss about ..immgration process with your loved spouses ...when you call them unless there is good news .....b/c IF YOU DO it may lead to MOOD SWINGS DISORDER ...LOL

You nailed it SGR, Mood Swing Disorder, Im the poster child for that one. And so true, do not discuss USCIS with loved one unless your approved, kills a private moment with loved one. The time I talk to my huband either phone or with web camera, Im not going to waste my precious moments talking about USCIS to my darling husband. I miss him enough and break down all the time, but not with him over USCIS. USCIS may be kiling us slowly, but their not going to kill the precious minutes I get with my love.
Paris Heart

sgr

Apr 25 2008, 04:50 PM

PARIS ...We all go through this ISD/MSD until we get our loved ones in our hands lol

I hope my advice helps some ....ppl

and also read this too ..for lil giggle.lol

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=124330

KipandSarahJayne

Apr 25 2008, 05:36 PM

QUOTE(sgr @ Apr 25 2008, 10:09 PM)

Here is my thoughts for you guys to keep up less stress and long delay....while going through immigration process

1.Check your e -mail everyday ....with big smile on you face

(hoping that you may have missed cris mail)

2.Check your USCIS case status once bi weekly....with this face

...b/c it never changes usually ..if you check it everyday or call them ...may cause more delay since they record how many times you called or visited ...etc ...which leads you these faces >>>>>>

...more and more frustration

3.Read more giggles everyday ...from VJ..

(ex : sarah and loto are good ones ..lol) and go to bed at night by dreaming your loved ones

Finally donot talk or discuss about ..immgration process with your loved spouses ...when you call them unless there is good news .....b/c IF YOU DO it may lead to MOOD SWINGS DISORDER ...LOL

Very good advice there Sgr .... you do make me laugh

QUOTE(Paris Heart @ Apr 25 2008, 10:39 PM)

You nailed it SGR, Mood Swing Disorder, Im the poster child for that one. And so true, do not discuss USCIS with loved one unless your approved, kills a private moment with loved one. The time I talk to my huband either phone or with web camera, Im not going to waste my precious moments talking about USCIS to my darling husband. I miss him enough and break down all the time, but not with him over USCIS. USCIS may be kiling us slowly, but their not going to kill the precious minutes I get with my love.
Paris Heart

Paris, I understand exactly how you feel .... does anyone here feel as though they're in prison or something ?
I've never been to prison, but I'm sure this is how it feels .... oh, that's right, they're allowed visits .... so, this must be worse than prison

By the way, has anyone seen Loto today ??

PatiencePaidOff

Apr 25 2008, 11:56 PM

QUOTE(KipandSarahJayne @ Apr 25 2008, 06:36 PM)

Paris, I understand exactly how you feel .... does anyone here feel as though they're in prison or something ?
I've never been to prison, but I'm sure this is how it feels .... oh, that's right, they're allowed visits .... so, this must be worse than prison

By the way, has anyone seen Loto today ??

Sarah, Loto was dead for a day

Was too busy at office for a production migration. Nevertheless, read all funny postings from Sgr at midnight

Laughed a lot

Sgr is treating us now