ok everyone, HOLD UP!
The computer voice told me on Wednesday May 24 that the Immigrant visa fee bill has been received and will send instructions in a few weeks
i spoke to a human who had told me that the iv fee bill was receveid on 5/22.
anywho, using James; shortcuts i mailed out an "already prepared" ds 230.
in the usps envelope, there was:
the barcoded cover sheet,
the ds 230 (2 pages of it)
my explanation to answering yes on ques. 25- if my spouse has been to the US before
and a copy of the biographic page with his pic and place of birth on it .
DOUBTS:
1. was i ok to send it? ( i think so yes)
2. was this all i needed
3. after they get it, usual time to review seems about 2 weeks as per the earlier replies in this post
*** but since my husband was here before, will it take longer??
--> how he got here:
he came on a k-1 visa in march 2000
got married to his exwife on april 30, 2000
attended their first interview in dec 2000 where i-94 was taken, and passport left unstamped. said gc will come in mail.
they separated in dec 2000
final divorce decree dated april 15, 2002.
within 90 days, he filed a waiver, i-751. granted on june 8, 2002.
got his EAD before he got the final divorce decree in july 2001.
his i-751 was extended again for another 1 year on june 3, 2003, on official uscis paper.
we met in nov 2002.
got married in aug 2003.
have a baby boy in sept 2004.
all this while kept making info pass appts, ASKING WHAT IS THE STATUS OF THE CASE.
they kept saying its pending. he got many stamps in his passport which read "procesed for i-551. temporary evidence of lawful admission for permanent residence; valid until________, employment authorized. "
hes traved to india 2x on these " stamps" once by himself and once we as a family.
both times he was inspected on return, so says the stamp they put at miami arpt.
finally they give him a 2nd interview- said his i-485 was denied on sept 16, 2002.
BUT HE GOT HIS WAIVER IN JUNE 2002, JUNE 2003, AND THOSE STAMPS....

HE LEFT TO INDIA THE DAY AFTER THE INTERVIEW
in the 12 hours btwn intrview and the flight back, lawyer said stay and file a i-485 again..
he said well.. i have NO status as of right now-- how willi know they wont deport me or start proceedings?? or put me in detention.?
at the interview, the officer just said to go home and file an appeal.
TECHNICALLY HE HAS NOT OVERSTAYED HIS VISA- HE LEFT THE DAY AFTER THEY CROSSED OUT THOSE STAMPS.
HE WAS AFRAID SOME SHERRIF WAS GOING TO COME KNOCK ON OUR DOOR AND TAKE HIM AWAY.
and so said, left me and the little one alone and flew back....
that was nov 19, 2005.
today is may 25, 2006.
in the meanwhile,
1. we appealed the decision made at the interview. (he sent it from india, they accepted it, and said wait a year)
2. applied for i-130,
3. applied for k-3.
the rest is in the time line....
I GUESS i just needed to vent..
if this doesnt get resolved soon, i might as well go to india too..dont u think? the baby hasnt seen his dad in over 6 months. i hope he remembers what he looks like hes only 20 months old