QUOTE(Scott and Marta @ Apr 24 2008, 04:56 PM)

Do you guys mean you cheat on your spouses or are you divorced or something?

No I'm guessing it means something known between all parties involved.
Honestly I don't care what it makes me sound like, but I think these are inappropriate Q's to have on VJ. This is a family immigration website, and new people are coming onto the site all the time to learn about the process of getting their SO here.(by this I mean should we be promoting ppl lusting after other VJ members?) Whether some people think certain things are ok, I find it disturbing to see people saying they want to have certain relationship with other VJers besides and in addition to their SO. What if the other person is not ok with the person wanting/thinking that about them? It seems like this could become a train wreck. I think it's best kept to oneself or private conversations than to talk about it openly on VJ. I know I might get comments about this but really, I feel it's crossing the line. I know however that I am not the ruler of VJ.
I agree.
Then again I think that these polls are not made for the general VJ public, but for a small group of VJers who are constantly on here and have become friends.