QUOTE(Akinstacey @ Apr 23 2008, 08:51 PM)

When you submitted evidence of your relationship, did any of your pics include you with his family members? Mother, father, siblings, etc? We didn't submit any letters from family members but we had pics of us together with them. I think one of the most obvious pieces of evidence that showed we had a 'legit' relationship, was an IM that we had ( I used to save them all) and in our conversation we were arguing during some of it. It was a jealousy issue. The interviewer specifically asked my fiance about that incident and why I got mad at him. After my fiance told him about it, they laughed because it was so trivial.....a typical relationship, ya know? If you have anything like that, I would submit it. I almost didn't include that one because I didn't want to be embarassed, but I'm glad I did becuase it was the only one that the interviewer paid attention to. I wish you much luck, I'm sure you'll be answered soon.
He took with him to the interview, pics of us, 2 to 3 im's per month (we didn't take them all) for our 16 month relationship, phone logs, emails but no pics of me with his family because I have not been to Nigeria. We met in Ghana due to travel warnings and his family was not able to go. The interviewer kept all of our evidence.