QUOTE(Steve Y Jessica @ Jun 2 2008, 08:43 PM)

Well I guess me and my wife are pretty lucky. I am of course doing most of the research and everything because her english isn't very good. And I am keeping her informed of all of the steps and what needs to be done. But she has done as much research as she can find in spanish. And she knows excatly what needs to be done. Today she finished up on her vaccinations and she is working on her police certificates from Buenos Aires and Lima. And we constantly discuss where we are in the process and what we still need to do so that we are both prepared and can speed up the process as much as possible. Our feeling is that we are both in this together and we are both just as committed to being together.
The problem with her is some of her research is reading info on univision, and alot of the people on univision are only talking about all of the problems they are having and there denials. So at times she gets very worried.
But I want to be with her for as many of the steps as possible. There was not even a question about if I would be there with her for the interview. After the NOA2, it is the most important part of the process. So I will be there by her side, holding her hand and trying to keep her relaxed. When i was there last weekend, we filled out the papers she is going to need to fill out for the packet 3, since they are in english. This way when she receives the packet 3, she will just have to copy everything and sign it. When she receives the packet 3, I may even try to travel to Buenos Aires to ensure that all paperwork is completed perfectly.
For me and my wife both, the most important thing in our lives at this point in time. is that this process goes as smooth as possible and we are together as soon as possible.
Because she gets so worried at times, we have even discussed what we would do if she could not get the visa for some reason. I did not even have to think about it. I have an extremely good job, but if it was the only way for us to be together, I would quit my job, move to Buenos Aires and sell fruits and vegetables on the streets of Buenos Aires.
But i also have to admit that it is a little easier for me to travel than most. I work for an airline so I fly for very cheap. And we recently bought an apartment in Buenos Aires, so it doesn't cost me much to travel to be with my wife. The hardest part is getting the time off work. But, even if i had to sell my motorcycle for the money, I wouldn't miss her interview.
Steve, my husband hired an attorney exactly because he didn’t want to worry about these Visa things. He has a very tough work. He said that he just wants me asap here and that the attorney should do everything for me to be there as fast as possible. He does nothing without talking to the attorney. I, on the other hand, am very interested on how things go, what to do, etc etc. He told me to stop visiting VJ because that would drive me crazy and that if I had a question, I should talk to the attorney because that’s what we hired her for. But whenever I have questions she, the attorney, never answers and when she does, she says she’s too busy to answer things she already explained and little doubts that I have.
I also know exactly what I need to do and what my husband needs to do. I filled out all of our forms and assembled all his and my documents. I did the entire job for the attorney. I know how things work now and am anticipating a lot of things. BUT he still wants to hear from the attorney. =(
Our problem is that my husband has recently been hired to a new job. He got the job when he came back to the USA after our wedding. The company switched states, so he moved from Seattle to Portland. His boss didn’t allow him to come, he said that he understands that this is very important, but if my husband is not obligated to attend the interview, then he couldn’t excuse him. Another thing is money. My husband has paid for a lot of things when he came plus the attorney and fees for USCIS. When he moved, he had to pay for a lot of things as well. So, it’s very hard for him to raise all that trip and fees money to come here again in such a short time. The Embassy is in Rio and I live in São Paulo. So it would be his trip to Brazil, his and my trip to Rio, hotel in Rio, fees for the consulate, my exams here in Brazil, my vaccines, my trip back to USA. Imagine that? I have an apartment here in São Paulo, so he wouldn’t pay for staying here with me but it's so little time.....
You undestand now?!
I wish he could come though....