I've actually looked ahead at the paperwork required for NVC to check out the visits to the US situation.
The only thing I found was on the DS-230 part1 form ..... question 25. "List dates of all previous visits or residence in the United States (if never, write never) Give type of visa status, if known ....."
So, from this, I gather if your spouse flies in to see you in the US, it's ok until after you send in the completed DS-230 form .... after this, it would make sense that further checks may have to be done which may possibly delay your case a little ..... but again, this is just speculation drawn upon looking at the DS-230 form.
Please note that they only give you 3 spaces for you to list your visits ..... it's a nightmare if you've been travelling there for many years, and I myself, like a lot of you will be adding an extra sheet of paper to this
