I wish I could follow my own advise sometimes. Every step of this process has made me crazy with nerves. As it turns out, each step goes well. I mailed my Wife the final package for her interview(pay stub, I-134, more pictures, ITR) you know all that stuff.
Anyway, of course i was a nervous wreck until I called her tonight and she told me that she had the package.
SO I offer this bit of advise, (which of course I won't follow LOL) don't panic! there is no reason to panic things will go fine. I am actually just venting here so i am rambling so sorry about that. I am just so excited about everything.
GOOD LUCK TO US ALL

Your right most of us are good at telling people to relax but don't do it ourselves. So all I can tell you is to keep busy that helps a bit keeps your mind occupied. Having said that I am sure all will go well at the interview. Best of luck.

I think we all feel that way at some stages. I only got into a panic when I received an appointment letter on March 21 stating that my fiancee had a March 25 medical and April 1 interview. I couldn't get my attorney to get in touch with me, so I rushed and got it all put together, only to be delayed until June 4 for the sputum test, LOL!

i wasa total mess when I got the interview date. LOL I think it's so much better to try to think positive than give yourself a heart attack about what may or may not happen

Hang in there and be positive and most of all be confident and trust your wife that she will do just fine during the interview. Goodluck

Just remain positive. Take some time off during the day and spend some quiet time with God.

These are some of my husband's words to keep us motivated -
(1) Always look at how far we have come rather than how far we have to go.
(2) Just keep the faith and drop the fear.
(3) Worrying is optional.

God Bless.

Yeap that the right word, Dont Panic. Just let your wife review all your documents and everything will be fine.

Thanks for the words of advice here! For us who are still about to have the interview, it really help.