just venting a bit..
My next proposal..
will NOT be an agreement between me and my man, it will be something that he has stressed about prayed about and put some thought into, i don't need him to be down on one knee or anything but DANG put some effort into it..
I will think "I am sooo happy" not " its about f'ing time"
Everybody in my family will probably hve heard about it before me because he has a pretty good relationship w/ them
No matter how big or small the ring is, it will be something HE picked out and purchased or financed or put on layaway or something (make it happen w/out my help)
He won't be too proud or insecure or afraid or ashamed to tell me WHY he wants me to be his wife, he won't be able to help himself..
will not be my man's last resort to keep me in his life, but a consequence of him realizing he NEEDS me in his life..