Ana, so sorry you're having to face that. Especially from people who are supposed to be supporting you!
Our famlies and friends are very supportive of us but I find that many people are simply ignorant to the process, especially when they know of others who have simply flown to the U.S., married and adjusted status that way...or even worse, are here illegally. Even the most educated professionals I know are amazed at the process and time it's taken to get Russell back home to us.
Brian, I can't imagine having a fiance from Mexico and waiting through this process when so many mexicans are already here illegally! It can't be fun trying to explain the process to them. I'd point those folks to www.immigrate2us.net and let them read over the 601 waiver forum!
In the end, we know what we're doing and we know why we're doing it. And when we're sitting at the appointment waiting to adjust status we will not have to worry about being denied, facing bans or proving there was no intent.

If there was an easier way to make sure our SO could stay here legally dont they think we'd be doing it? I say the hell with the naysayers... kill em with kindness (and sarcasm

) and tell them you really appreciate their support and will look into it... and always with a smile. That'll shut em up!