QUOTE(HighwayStar @ Jul 29 2008, 02:42 AM)

QUOTE(KimandRuss @ Jul 28 2008, 07:00 PM)

I'm sorry Raff

I wish I could explain why some take longer. Peach's sent date (the date they supposedly go by) was 3/30 and she was just approved. By looking at those left I have to wonder if there is just this short stack of filers from your timeframe. Your initial concern of having a bit longer due to security checks because of your job could be it as well. It can be anything holding it up a little longer than some.

The good news is that usually those dont get held up for too long. I'm sure it's coming... but in the meantime don't feel badly about being down or having to hold back as we celebrate. We know how you feel and understand your concerns!
Thank you for your understanding. I am very happy for other people, and I don't want to seem as if I'm raining on their parade, but I really feel so terribly down, and at this point I think it's not going to happen. One thing I know is that I can't possibly bear another six months or longer like that, and I don't know what I'm going to do if this goes on much longer. Michael would move here in a heartbeat, but he knows that the current situation in Italy is rather bad (won't go into details, but suffice it to say that he's got to pay about $1,000 a month in child support, and it would be next to impossible for him to find a job here, unless he wanted to risk his life every minute of the day), and that his moving here would put a huge burden on me. My work situation is not good either, especially from a psychological point of view. At my age I wouldn't be able to find another job here, and that would probably make things hard in another European country. This is why we decided to go the K1 route... We were even able to buy an apartment in the US a couple of months ago, but I don't even know if I will ever be allowed to live here (my money was OK to take though).
Sorry for venting and spoiling everyone's party, but I am feeling so depressed... We are good people, and I don't think we deserve this.
HighwayStar>>>>I am sorry to hear that things have been very tough on you.
I just want you to know I am here to share that depressing uncertainty with you....
I totally know what you mean. My fiance is coming to Japan in two weeks
and we have been apart for almost 8 months because of USCIS.
We have never committed a crime before, we met when we were both in college,
I always wrote down his address in my I-94 form
whenever I went to visit him in the US, I really don't think there is anything
that looks suspicious to USCIS about our history or background.
But somehow it has been taking 4 months since we filed our petition....
It should be encouraging to know that VSC is moving as you can see
from all the new approvals coming every day but it has been so long that
I feel like i would never ever get an approval from USCIS.
But highwaystar, let's hang in there a little longer!!!!
You are not alone!!! Just forget about NOA2 while your fiance is with you in Italy
and try to enjoy every minute of the time you get to spend with him because you know
it is very precious!! ;-)
I will do the same when my fiance comes to Japan!!